2009

the post in which I accuse everyone of incompetence

A reader writes: Why are recruiters idiots, he asks in absolute frustration? I talked to a recruiter today that didn’t let me continue the application process or talk to me after learning I didn’t have a specific experience on my resume. I’m a programmer, and this is experience that A) is not coding and B) […]

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listing yourself as a job reference

I need to call your immediate attention to this comment from M. left on a recent post: In the last year, many (candidates) have been listing their mothers as references, and I even had one student last week list HERSELF as a reference. Has anyone else ever seen this? Listing yourself as a reference is […]

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career counselor is advising me to lie

A reader writes: I was told by a career counselor that if asked in an interview why I left my previous job I should answer that I was laid off. I was actually fired, but the company did not dispute my claim for unemployment so I am now collecting. I feel to tell an interviewer […]

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can job offer be rescinded over a misunderstanding?

A reader writes: My husband has been offered a new contract via email. His response was: “With all honesty I cannot but accept this offer.” The employer replied:“I don’t know how to interpret your reply, but what I understand is that you decline the offer.” He replied to this email clarifying that his answer was […]

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should I tell recruiters I was laid off?

A reader writes: I just graduated in December, and started work in January. The company lost a large contract, and my site had to lay off 20% of the work force, myself included. Any recruiter is going to ask why I left, and a friend of a friend who works for a staffing agency said […]

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manager asking me to discipline my coworkers

A reader writes: Several of the employees of my office (including myself) have been approached by our department manager, who has asked us to talk with specific employees about their attendance, personal phone calls, hygiene, etc. I feel this is the manager’s job to do but he has become down right insistent that we “handle” […]

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can I use my ex as a job reference?

A reader writes: On the application I have been asked to return immediately before what appears to be my final interview, it asks for three references that are not relatives or former employers. I would like to use my ex-wife, but I am concerned if this may be acceptable from the eyes of a recruiter. […]

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offer changed once I was on the job

A reader writes: I just finished my second week in my “dream job,” but there are some complications, and I’m not sure how to proceed. The job required moving from the Midwest to the West coast; I both received the job offer and accepted it by phone. At the time of offer, I was offered […]

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