2009

do not become your friend’s boss

One of the toughest challenges a manager can face is also one aspect of the job that, at the start, often seems like it’s going to be great–managing a friend. Contrary to what nearly everyone thinks when they’re first considering it, it’s really hard. Indeed, very few people come out of it with their friendship […]

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how to explain previous boss was demented?

A reader writes: My last job was really successful and exciting and I would love to talk about it at length with future employers since I think it’s very interesting and highlights a lot of my strengths. I started as an unpaid intern and was promoted to paid assistant within two months. I had a […]

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how the hiring process works on the employer’s side

A couple of people have asked about this recently, so I’ve put together a description of how the hiring process works on my side. Keep in mind that this is just how I do it — other hiring managers do it differently, and larger companies often automate the early stages of this. 1. A job […]

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graduated a year ago, still can’t get hired

A reader writes: I graduated from college last spring in June of 2008 and have been searching for employment since then but unfortunately I haven’t been able to find a job. I have even looked at minimum wage jobs outside of my field as a dishwasher, custodian, painter etc. I was in competition for those […]

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how college students can prepare now to job search later

With recent college graduates pouring into a tight job market, it’s an unnerving time to be looking for a first job. Students still in school should be thinking about building their resumes now, so that when they graduate and need a job, they aren’t starting from nothing. I receive all too many resumes from recent grads […]

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my favorite posts of all time

Ask a Manager came into being two years ago today. I had no idea whether anyone would be interested in reading what I had to say, but that’s never stopped me from babbling before, and I’m glad it didn’t stop me this time. Thank you guys for reading and commenting and emailing and giving me […]

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teacher’s boss expanding job requirements

A reader writes: I am a teacher. I have a specific job description with specific duties outlined. Two years ago I got a new boss and she began adding duties to that list. The list includes: – Visiting students’ home prior to the start of school and the beginning of the contract. I have to […]

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boss won’t socialize with staff

A reader writes: I work in a rather small office, and occasionally we will have short in-office lunches to celebrate a special occasion (weddings, new babies, beginning of spring, etc). We usually have no more than 15-20 people at a gathering. Our new boss of one year never attends these functions. Sometimes he will buy […]

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