will it hurt me to stay in a job where my managers don’t like me? by Alison Green on August 17, 2012 A reader writes: I’ve come to accept that my supervisors (my manager and VP) and I mutually dislike one another on a personal level. Part of it is a function of differing pesonalities and different approaches to project management. But part of it is an entrenched dysfunctional culture at my department and organization and how […] Read the full article →
update from the reader whose dad was frustrated about her unpaid internship by Alison Green on August 16, 2012 Remember the letter from the reader whose father was frustrated that she hadn’t found a paying job yet? She was working in an unpaid internship that she enjoyed, but her father thought any paid work would be better for her resume. Here’s her update. I started getting interviews for jobs in my field in early […] Read the full article →
update about the dinner the boss canceled as punishment by Alison Green on August 16, 2012 Remember the boss who invited employees to a dinner, then canceled it as “punishment” for not responding to 3 a.m. emails, then reinstated it? Here’s the update. (This is from the fiance of one of the employees, as was the original letter.) My fiance and I ended up not attending the dinner; the following week […] Read the full article →
update about the pushy dietician who wouldn’t leave people alone by Alison Green on August 16, 2012 Here’s the first of a coming series of “where are they now?” updates on letters that were printed earlier this year … and this is a good one. Remember the letter from the bodybuilder whose company had hired a new dietician, and she wouldn’t leave him alone? She was constantly badgering him with meal plans […] Read the full article →
asking your interviewer to let you know if you didn’t get the job by Alison Green on August 16, 2012 A reader writes: During a recent interview, the interviewers were telling me about their expected timeline for making a decision, and I barely caught myself before saying something like, “Well, can you please let me know either way?” Do you think that it is appropriate to diplomatically say something like that in the course of […] Read the full article →
terse answer Thursday: 6 short answers to 6 short questions by Alison Green on August 16, 2012 It’s terse answer Thursday — six short answers to six short questions. Here we go… 1. Resigning when I’m on company travel I currently work as a project manager for a construction company that does business around the southeastern U.S. Currently I’m working about 2.5 hours away from home and our home office and the […] Read the full article →
employer is suddenly forcing me to work Saturdays by Alison Green on August 15, 2012 A reader writes: Last year, after my having worked in this company’s IT department for 12 years of almost completely free weekends, we were told to start a Saturday help desk coverage rotation between April and August. I very reluctantly agreed to be part of the rotation, even though I am not a help desk […] Read the full article →
how to train a new hire by Alison Green on August 15, 2012 A reader writes: I’m transitioning out of my job and into a new one. My replacement will start a week from today, and I’ll have a full week week to train the new employee. My organization has not historically been good at training. When I started this job, my predecessor sat over my shoulder and […] Read the full article →
my coworker refuses to answer questions I need to do my job by Alison Green on August 15, 2012 A reader writes: Yesterday, a colleague of mine refused to show me how to perform a task or even to allow me to observe her performing the task. She actually said, “I can’t show you this because I don’t know if you are supposed to have user-permissions to perform this task and I could get […] Read the full article →
I’m bored and burned out at work by Alison Green on August 15, 2012 A reader writes: I’ve been at my job for two years, and I’m getting bored. The things I’m working on are repetitive, and I’m starting to get increasingly annoyed with day-to-day nuisances. I’m essentially having to restrain myself from biting my coworkers. About a year ago, my direct manager left, and was never replaced– instead, […] Read the full article →