following up on my manager’s promise to try to get me a raise by Alison Green on January 3, 2013 A reader writes: At the end of November, I went to my manager to discuss a raise. I told her that I had been approached about two job opportunities that are paying about $15k more than what I’m making now. I’m happy in my role and not looking to make a change — and I […] Read the full article →
someone sent a dirty email from my work account — but it wasn’t me! by Alison Green on January 3, 2013 A reader writes: This is so embarrassing! I use my personal smart phone for many things, including work email. Work is ok with this and in fact proves a little extra on my pay to cover some of the cost. I struck up a conversation with one of the regulars at a local pub over […] Read the full article →
when a coworker won’t say no by Alison Green on January 3, 2013 A reader writes: My manager quit earlier this year, leaving me to run the marketing department with a woman we’d just hired. I wasn’t in favor of the hire because I was concerned that she lacks professional maturity, but now she’s my co-director and we’re making do. They’re not replacing my manager, and there’s been no conversation about how our roles […] Read the full article →
wee answer Wednesday — 7 short answers to 7 short questions by Alison Green on January 2, 2013 It’s wee answer Wednesday — seven short answers to seven short questions. Here we go… 1. Coworker’s husband is doing our schedule My boss gave a coworker the task of scheduling my coworkers because he felt she was more qualified for the task. I just found out that she has her husband doing the scheduling. […] Read the full article →
what should I say to my boss when coworkers tattle on me? by Alison Green on January 2, 2013 A reader writes: My supervisor has been calling me into her office and telling me about mistakes I’ve made that she found out about from my peers who work with me. They are minor mistakes and I take full responsibility for them, but what should I say to my supervisor about being “tattled” on? “Thanks […] Read the full article →
should you disclose that you’re fat when you’re job-searching? by Alison Green on January 2, 2013 A reader writes: I realize this may sound weird as I’m not in the U.S., but here goes. I’m fat. It’s a fact, it’s obvious, not that I won’t lose any weight, but heh, for now, I’ll make do with what I am. In the meantime, I am looking for a job. The problem is […] Read the full article →
how to handle an out-of-town interview by Alison Green on January 2, 2013 If you’re invited to interview with an out-of-town company, you’ll need to do more interview preparation than if you were interviewing locally. Here are seven things to think about as you prepare for an out-of-town interview. 1. Ask ahead of time what the company will and won’t pay for, and how expenses will be covered. For […] Read the full article →
tiny answer Tuesday — 7 short answers to 7 short questions by Alison Green on January 1, 2013 It’s tiny answer Tuesday — seven short answers to seven short questions. Here we go… 1. Fired and asked to train my replacement I am in a situation at my current job where the owner has already hired my replacement. I’ve been there four months, but she brought me into her office the day after […] Read the full article →
where are they now: 3 more reader updates by Alison Green on January 1, 2013 Here are three more updates from readers who had their questions answered here in 2012. I think these are our final updates, unless any more trickle in. 1. The reader whose boss’s wife wanted to oversee her work My situation had a happy ending, for me at least. Shortly after I wrote you, a position […] Read the full article →
employers that ask for references but never call them by Alison Green on January 1, 2013 A reader writes: I have a question that’s more of a curiosity than a pressing concern, since I’m currently happily employed. When I was searching for a job, I had two in-person interviews (each preceded by a phone interview) that seemed to go really well. Both teams of interviewers asked me for references, which I […] Read the full article →