October 2013

my mother’s boss is spreading a false rumor that my mom is dying

A reader writes: I’m asking this on behalf of my mom, who’s currently undergoing chemo for treatable cancer. She’s back to work after surgery, and is getting her treatment every two weeks. She’s doing very well and looks completely healthy (no hair loss, that sort of thing) to an outsider. Her boss, however, has spread […]

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can a manager and employees be friends?

A reader writes:  With my new job of four months, I’ve made the crossover from staff to management; I now manage a team of seven. For the first time ever, people aren’t trying to reach out and be social with me and I can’t decide if they don’t like me or if it’s part of being in […]

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5 more reader updates

If you thought we were done with updates, you thought wrong. Here are five more. 1. The reader who had realized that she talked too much in meetings Your readers had a ton of good advice that made me approach professional communication in a whole new way. I still go overboard when I get excited […]

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back…

I’m back!  And this happened: (click to enlarge) And special thanks to Ireland Chauffeur Travel, who drove us around for the second week of the trip once we left Dublin — on Ireland’s terrifyingly narrow roads, no less — booked us into ridiculously great hotels, and gave us an awesome guide. If you’re going to […]

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