February 2015

my manager gave me critical feedback but refused to give specifics

A reader writes: I work for a large retailer and have had several roles there. I was having a difficult conversation with my boss regarding career development when she interjected that someone on another team that I work with, she couldn’t say who, said that “I wasn’t working with enough urgency.” I asked for clarification […]

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bringing luggage to an interview, Monday morning meetings, and more

It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. New manager keeps scheduling meetings for Monday mornings Employee morale is at an all-time low at our organization for many reasons. Our new CEO isn’t helping with the matter. He schedules meetings on Monday mornings. Sometimes these meetings are conference calls, sometimes they’re day-long, in-person, […]

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how to handle chronic complainers on your staff

A reader writes: I was hired to manage a team of fairly experienced salespeople. I originally was a manager of a different line and left for a better opportunity, and returned for a promotion as sales coordinator. I had known the team already and had a respect built with them. But now that I am […]

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my coworker won’t stop caressing me — or the kids we work with

A reader writes: I work part-time for an organization that deals with recreational programming for all ages. I’ve been there for about 7 years. I work with children in the 6-11-year-old age range. I have a new-ish coworker, Kim, who is very touchy-feely. She’s like this with everyone. She will get inside your personal bubble […]

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since I gave notice at work, my boss has tripled my workload

A reader writes: At the beginning of the year, I gave notice at my current position. The decision was necessary due to severe burnout issues (to the point where I have been having anxiety attacks) and a terrible boss who, despite 6+ months of repeated, documented conversations about my burnout levels, only continued to increase […]

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can introverts and extroverts work together happily?

Introverts: How often are you annoyed by too much noise and talking from extroverts at work? Extroverts: Do introverted coworkers come across as chilly or aloof to you? I know none of you have strong opinions on this (cough). Most work groups will have a mix of introverts and extroverts in them, and their differing work […]

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my coworker writes a mean blog about me

A reader writes: I have a work colleague we’ll call J. J and I sit next to each other and have been friendly the entire time we worked together. She has told me about things in her personal life (recent loss of a beloved pet, for instance) and I’ve shared the same type of stuff […]

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