April 2015

my husband’s boss wants him to lie about our upcoming move

A reader writes: I recently got a promotion that requires moving to a different city, three time zones away. My husband works for a company whose business is tied to the region we’re currently living in and he regularly travels for a couple of days every other week or so. He’s great at his job […]

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how to say no to a work request

If you have a full plate at work but can’t think of the last time you pushed back on a work request, no matter how far afield from your own priorities, you might be taking on so many commitments that you can’t possibly get it all done without exhausting yourself. What’s more, in your efforts […]

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I heard my coworker having sex on a business trip

A reader writes: My employer has recently added a new member to our remote/in-field team and, since she and I will be working the same territory, I’ve been tasked with training her. While not her supervisor, I’m responsible for making sure she understands the company’s standards/expectations and for getting her set-up in her new role. […]

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ending an email with “please advise”

A reader writes: I’ve been working in an administrative role for the past two years and have found your blog very helpful. There are a lot of things that I wish someone would have told me about at the very beginning – especially email etiquette. I would like to give some of that advice to […]

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8 ways to promote employee wellness that would actually work

Employers are increasingly launching wellness initiatives aimed at creating a healthier workforce and lowering their own health care costs. But many employees roll their eyes at these efforts or are even actively alienated by programs that push them to make lifestyle changes, such as losing weight or changing their eating habits; they find the initiatives […]

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weekend free-for-all – April 11-12, 2015

This comment section is open for any non-work-related discussion you’d like to have with other readers, by popular demand. (This one is truly non-work only; if you have a work question, you can email it to me or post it in the work-related open thread on Fridays.) Book Recommendation of the Week: Last week I […]

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