my manager keeps exaggerating about my stress level by Alison Green on December 14, 2015 A reader writes: I’m in a new position, which I enjoy. Of course, no job is perfect, and there’s a curious issue I’m not sure how to handle: What do you think is the line between exaggerating and lying? And, when does it need to be addressed in a “managing up” situation when it’s a […] Read the full article →
job candidate got company name wrong, makeup at work, and more by Alison Green on December 14, 2015 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Job candidate got our company name wrong in a presentation My company is currently conducting interviews for an upper-level management position. As part of the interview process, candidates give a presentation to staff. Recently, we had a candidate who got the name of our organization […] Read the full article →
update: can we delay payroll if someone isn’t turning in their hours on time? by Alison Green on December 13, 2015 Remember the letter-writer working as an office manager for a small company and wondering how to handle payroll if someone didn’t submit their hours on time (#5 at the link)? Here’s the update. The payroll issue was just one of a larger string of issues that made the entire job pretty intolerable. I should have […] Read the full article →
weekend free-for-all – December 12-13, 2015 by Alison Green on December 12, 2015 This comment section is open for any non-work-related discussion you’d like to have with other readers, by popular demand. (This one is truly no work and no school. If you have a work question, you can email it to me or post it in the work-related open thread on Fridays.) Book Recommendation of the Week: Straight […] Read the full article →
update: my boss has banned hot take-out food at lunch by Alison Green on December 12, 2015 Remember the letter-writer whose boss had banned all hot take-out food in the office because of his own desire to be healthier? We saw one update on the situation in May, and here’s the latest. After starting my job search from March of this year and attending some questionable interviews, I finally have a new role! […] Read the full article →
4 more updates from letter-writers by Alison Green on December 11, 2015 Here are four updates from letter-writers who had their questions answered here this year. 1. My employee asked me not to give him any feedback At our next meeting, I was prepared to have a hard discussion about the necessity of feedback. Instead, as soon as I brought it up my team member said he’d love […] Read the full article →
update: my chronically networking husband hands out business cards on date night by Alison Green on December 11, 2015 Remember the letter-writer whose husband was constantly networking on their date nights, to the point of even handing out business cards during walks in the countryside? Here’s the update. Haha, when I wrote in June I was very very nervous to see the comments but everyone was understanding with similar tales and good advice. My letter […] Read the full article →
2 housekeeping notes (ads, and a new commenting feature) by Alison Green on December 11, 2015 Two housekeeping notes for you: 1. Ads I’ve been experimenting with some different ad formats over the last week (taking advantage of the fact that December traditionally has lower traffic, so it’s the least bad time to do it). You’ll notice, for instance, that there’s a new ad box above the comments section (except on mobile […] Read the full article →
how to interview your potential new boss by Alison Green on December 11, 2015 A reader writes: Our department was asked by our director to have an informal-type “interview” with two of the finalists in line to fill our manager position (the current manager is retiring). We are a small department of eight people, and we are tasked with “being unemotional” and to have “facts” as to why we […] Read the full article →
open thread – December 11, 2015 by Alison Green on December 11, 2015 It’s the Friday open thread! The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on anything work-related that you want to talk about. If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to talk to other readers. * If you submitted […] Read the full article →