June 2016

we have a mandatory all-staff jamboree on Election Day

A reader writes: I work for a small company (under 20 employees, plus approximately 50 independent contractors over 30 states). The big boss has decreed that this year we shall have a mandatory all-staff (and all-contractor) jamboree, hosted here in my city where the head office is located, on November 7, 8, and 9. November […]

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am I missing too much work when my kids are sick?

A reader writes: I am a single mother to an 8-year-old and a 19-month-old. My youngest gets sick quite often, and when she needs medical attention or simply a day home from day care, I don’t really have anyone to rely on to help me out. This usually means I have to miss work when she […]

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I think our employee lied about having cancer

A reader writes: I have a very bizarre situation. I read your article about a forged doctor’s note and this is similar, but different. An employee came to me with a note stating that she was at the doctor on a particular date and cleared to return to work four days later. She then told […]

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coworkers are having an affair and one might get promoted to manage the other, boss wants me to help his friends, and more

It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My coworkers are having an affair and one is up for a promotion to manage the other Two colleagues (“Chris” and “Jamie”) are having an affair, and have been for several years. They’re both married. Only a few people know (I think), and I haven’t […]

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should I go to law school if I don’t want to practice law?

A reader writes: As a college senior, I applied to law school and deferred admission to a top-3 law school. (I mention this to help mitigate concerns over the crumbling state of the legal profession.) I was never very interested in law, but I majored in sociology and didn’t know what other grad school I’d […]

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how to talk to your boss about mental health issues

If you’re struggling with mental health issues, you have to deal not just with the issue itself, but also with the anxiety of trying to figure out how much, if anything, you can tell your boss about what you’re dealing with. That’s frustrating because in some cases, you might want to give your manager context for why you’re not […]

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