November 2016

my employee keeps over-sharing personal medical details

A reader writes: I oversee a team of five members, and one of the team members is very open about medical stuff. When she was pregnant a few years ago (we were peers at the time), I was informed of every single one of her first trimester nauseas. Now that I supervise her, if she […]

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you can’t be held hostage to a bad employee

A reader writes: I belong to a small country church of the type where people’s families have attended for generations. One of our members has acted as secretary for over 20 years. A few years ago, we hired a new pastor and this secretary does not like him. She’s always been a prickly person to […]

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when an employee flirts with the boss

A reader writes: My friend was recently promoted from chief accountant at one hotel to assistant director of finance of another hotel managed by her company. She’s been at the new hotel for about a month now, and the A/R manager — who reports to her — has gotten a little too comfortable with her. […]

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I’m stuck in a job I hate

A reader writes: I need your help. I absolutely hate my new job and I don’t see it getting better anytime soon. I work in IT for a regional company. The benefits are decent, the pay is good, and at a 30,000-foot view, I should love my job. But I don’t. The entire IT department […]

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my boss keeps inviting me to family events

A reader writes: My boss (co-owner of the company) is someone who is good to me professionally, but for whom I have very little respect after watching her work for eight years. However, I am always polite and professional and work as hard as I can for her, her co-owner (who I like), and the […]

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