I ghosted a client and now I need to finish my work for her by Alison Green on January 7, 2019 A reader writes: I work in a jack-of-all-trades type position doing administrative work, graphic design, web design, and more. The hours that I spend at that job are full-time for my ability level, but are technically part-time and read that way to others. Earlier this year, someone I worked with in the past asked if […] Read the full article →
our sick leave practices are a mess by Alison Green on January 7, 2019 Every year around this time, my inbox at Ask a Manager fills up with complaints about coughing, sneezing colleagues who shouldn’t be at work and, by coming in, are putting everyone else at risk of getting sick, too. Sometimes, of course, it’s due to a martyr complex – the feeling that work cannot possibly go […] Read the full article →
my coworkers complained that the look of my breasts post-mastectomy is making them uncomfortable by Alison Green on January 7, 2019 A reader writes: I recently had a double mastectomy with reconstruction, but the reconstruction on one side failed. As a consequence, I am not exactly symmetrical at the moment and will stay this way until the reconstruction is attempted again (probably next summer). I decided to not wear an external implant (it goes in the […] Read the full article →
I pretended I’m allergic to bees, is it ethical to buy a resume and cover letter, and more by Alison Green on January 7, 2019 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. I pretended I’m allergic to bees when I’m not, and it made things weird I’m fresh out of college and starting my first job, so I’m already self-conscious about how young and inexperienced I am. I was walking to my car with a few coworkers […] Read the full article →
weekend free-for-all – January 5-6, 2019 by Alison Green on January 5, 2019 This comment section is open for any non-work-related discussion you’d like to have with other readers, by popular demand. (This one is truly no work and no school.) Book recommendation of the week: The Wizard of Lies: Bernie Madoff and the Death of Trust, by Diana B. Henriques, the New York Times business correspondent who covered the […] Read the full article →
open thread – January 4-5, 2019 by Alison Green on January 4, 2019 It’s the Friday open thread! The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on anything work-related that you want to talk about. If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to talk to other readers. * If you submitted […] Read the full article →
my boss keeps suggesting I move, does “let me check” make me look incompetent, and more by Alison Green on January 4, 2019 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My new job said I wouldn’t have to move — but my boss keeps bringing it up I recently started a new job (less than a month ago) and my manager has already asked me three times if I’d be willing to relocate. The job […] Read the full article →
was this interview as bizarre as I think it was? by Alison Green on January 3, 2019 A reader writes: I recently went on my first interview in my field after finishing school two weeks ago, and the interview was odd in a few different ways. 1. Although I’m white with a British background on both sides, my last name is one that one would assume is Korean or Indigenous. The first […] Read the full article →
my boss makes people work late for no reason by Alison Green on January 3, 2019 A reader writes: My boss has told my two salaried coworkers on more than one occasion that she wants to see them working late more often (like she does), even while admitting that they get everything done on time and their work is excellent. The other day she said to me that she believes as […] Read the full article →
the government shutdown: an open thread for people being furloughed by Alison Green on January 3, 2019 With the government shutdown nearing two weeks and hundreds of thousands of government employees and contractors furloughed — and currently not getting paid — here’s an open thread for people who are affected. People impacted by the last shutdown, what advice do you have for people affected by this one? And people affected by this […] Read the full article →