I don’t want to tell my boss I’m quitting until after I tell the rest of my team by Alison Green on September 30, 2019 A reader writes: I am on the precipice of accepting a new job offer, and I am having some trouble deciding how to approach my resignation. I know it would be best practice to notify my supervisor (Nancy) first, and then maybe HR, and the rest of my team, if a superior hasn’t shared the […] Read the full article →
how do I deal with a lazy coworker? by Alison Green on September 30, 2019 A reader writes: I have a coworker who’s become too comfortable in her job; she knows she is retiring in several years and seems to have thrown in the towel. Her job is to greet visitors, but she sits at her desk with ear buds in and a scowl. Everyone now comes to me instead. […] Read the full article →
my company says we’re dog-friendly — but we’re not by Alison Green on September 30, 2019 A reader writes: My office just published an updated handbook, and one of the major changes was the addition of a pet policy. Background: A coworker had been bringing her extremely well-behaved and well-trained dog into the office several days a week for about a year, and the dog (who I’ll call Mr. Goodboy) had […] Read the full article →
coworker assumes we’ll give him rides, can I fire a new hire for being pregnant, and more by Alison Green on September 30, 2019 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My coworker always assumes someone will drive him to meetings I have a coworker who always assumes that someone will drive him to and from meetings outside our facility. He owns a car but usually takes public transportation to work since it’s cheaper and his […] Read the full article →
weekend free-for-all – September 28-29, 2019 by Alison Green on September 28, 2019 This comment section is open for any non-work-related discussion you’d like to have with other readers, by popular demand. (This one is truly no work and no school.) Book recommendation of the week: Mrs. Palfrey at the Claremont, by Elizabeth Taylor. An older woman moves into the Claremont Hotel and befriends a young writer who agrees to pose […] Read the full article →
open thread – September 27-28, 2019 by Alison Green on September 27, 2019 It’s the Friday open thread! The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on anything work-related that you want to talk about. If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to talk to other readers. * If you submitted […] Read the full article →
cooking fish at work, unusually long layoffs, and more by Alison Green on September 27, 2019 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. Coworker cooks fish at work — and the smell makes me vomit I work in a multi-floored corporate building with break rooms on each floor. Some are walled in with doors and others open into the floor. I work on an open floor and I’m […] Read the full article →
how do I know when it’s time to give up on a promotion? by Alison Green on September 26, 2019 A reader writes: I work as an analyst in a highly technical field and have been at my place of employment for six years, with three different internal jobs that have been escalating in terms of responsibility, technical difficulty, and pay. Last year, there was an opening for a team lead that has responsibility for […] Read the full article →
updates: office parties with secret destinations, the sarcastic junior coworker, and more by Alison Green on September 26, 2019 Here are four updates from people who had their letters answered here in the past. 1. Office parties where the destination/activity is a secret The party came and went last Thursday, so I can now update you on how it went. I was glad to read that I wasn’t alone in being annoyed by not […] Read the full article →
can job-hopping BE my career somehow? by Alison Green on September 26, 2019 It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: I am in my early 30s and the longest I have ever had a single full-time job is 11 months, while the longest I’ve ever had a single part-time job is about two years. When I put together a resume, I’m picking the relevant positions […] Read the full article →