update: I hired a friend and it’s not going well by Alison Green on December 16, 2019 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer who had hired a friend and it was going badly? Here’s the update. It was really clear from Alison’s advice that either Mike had to […] Read the full article →
vote for the worst boss of 2019 by Alison Green on December 16, 2019 It’s time to vote on the worst boss of the year! We’ll crown the worst boss of the year later this week, based on your votes … so please vote below. (Voting ends at 11:59 p.m. EST Wednesday night.) Who was the worst boss of 2019? Read the full article →
employee might give me drugs for Christmas, coworker’s husband punched me, and more by Alison Green on December 16, 2019 It’s three answers to three questions. Here we go… 1. My employee might give me drugs for Christmas I’m a manager of a the warehouse team at our company and earlier today a member of the sales team who reports to me and who I have a good rapport with asked me if I smoke […] Read the full article →
updates: the trash-talking boss, the excessive thanker, and more by Alison Green on December 15, 2019 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. My boss trash-talks all my coworkers At first, this didn’t get any better. And I realized the issue was systemic—at […] Read the full article →
update: interviewing while missing several front teeth by Alison Green on December 14, 2019 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer in 2018 who had to interview while missing several front teeth because he was in the middle of extensive dental work? (#2 at the link) […] Read the full article →
weekend free-for-all – December 14-15, 2019 by Alison Green on December 14, 2019 This comment section is open for any non-work-related discussion you’d like to have with other readers, by popular demand. (This one is truly no work and no school.) Book recommendation of the week: Us, by David Nicholls. Hoping to save his marriage, the somewhat uptight and rigid Douglas Petersen embarks on a month-long tour of Europe with his […] Read the full article →
update: my dad is dating my boss, and they want me to go to couples therapy with them by Alison Green on December 13, 2019 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer whose boss was dating her dad, and she was being ordered to attend couples counseling with them? The first update is here, and here’s the […] Read the full article →
updates: the bad coworker, the food police, and more by Alison Green on December 13, 2019 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are five updates from past letter-writers. 1. My coworker is bad at her job, and I’m unofficially in charge of her I got a lot of advice […] Read the full article →
managing an employee who’s often out sick by Alison Green on December 13, 2019 A reader writes: I have an employee who for the last six months has been out sick about 1-2 days a week on average, due to chronic illness. This is affecting performance, and others have had to shoulder a lot of the burden: missed deadlines, poor quality work, and an overall significant decrease in productivity. […] Read the full article →
open thread – December 13-14, 2019 by Alison Green on December 13, 2019 It’s the Friday open thread! The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on anything work-related that you want to talk about. If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to talk to other readers. * If you submitted […] Read the full article →