updates: the cruel email, the disappointed junior employee, and more by Alison Green on May 12, 2020 It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. My boss asked me to log into a coworker’s email to delete a cruel message Back in 2016, you answered by […] Read the full article →
my company wants me working fewer hours — but I have so much to do by Alison Green on May 12, 2020 A reader writes: Since the pandemic, my company has been doing about double the work we were before the outbreak. I’m new (as of February) and my team is currently only half-staffed (two people instead of four). We are currently remote, and will be for at least another month. The other person on my team […] Read the full article →
how do I respond to colleagues who are jealous of my furlough? by Alison Green on May 12, 2020 A reader writes: I’m furloughed, along with about 98% of my organization (~35,000 people), the vast majority of them public-facing retail. When the corporate furloughs came, one of the “reassuring” points leadership widely circulated was that, at some compensation levels, with unemployment plus the federal stimulus and our company paying our insurance premiums, an employee […] Read the full article →
asking coworkers to go to vegetarian-friendly restaurants, contacting my team with support while they’re laid off, and more by Alison Green on May 12, 2020 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Asking coworkers to go to vegetarian-friendly restaurants on business trips I am vegetarian (by choice). Normally, this is not a huge issue, and many of my friends and coworkers don’t even know I am vegetarian. If we’re going to a restaurant that doesn’t have good […] Read the full article →
update: do men need to cut their long hair for job interviews? by Alison Green on May 11, 2020 It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer in 2017 whose husband was agonizing over whether he needed to cut his long hair for job interviews? Here’s the update. I’ve been enjoying all […] Read the full article →
what to say when your manager calls with bad news by Alison Green on May 11, 2020 A reader writes: I’m a journalist working at a media company, and my industry has been really hard-hit by the coronavirus. A few weeks ago, management announced company-wide pay cuts, and some of our staff was furloughed. At the time, we were told that layoffs weren’t being considered. Fast forward to today, when I learned […] Read the full article →
updates: should I tell my employer I might have brought COVID to work, and more by Alison Green on May 11, 2020 It’s a special “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, when I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are four updates from past letter-writers. 1. Should I tell my employer I may have brought COVID-19 to work in January? Thanks for answering my question about […] Read the full article →
how quickly should you send job rejections? by Alison Green on May 11, 2020 A reader writes: I’m a firm believer in following up with every single applicant, interviewed or not. When would you say is ideal time to send out a rejection letter? I answer this question over at Inc. today, where I’m revisiting letters that have been buried in the archives here from years ago (and sometimes […] Read the full article →
how to vent responsibly (and win a free book!) by Alison Green on May 11, 2020 If you’ve ever worried you’re venting about your job too much, or secretly wished your friends or coworkers would vent a little less about theirs, you have a lot of company. People vent about their jobs! Sometimes a lot. And it often makes them feel better … until at some point it starts making them […] Read the full article →
I don’t know if I’m still invited to my customer’s wedding, my husband is borderline rude at work, and more by Alison Green on May 11, 2020 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. I don’t know if I’m still invited to my customer’s wedding after I came out of the closet I’m a woman working in agriculture, which is an incredibly male-dominated and conservative industry. One of my customers is a woman who’s right around my age (mid […] Read the full article →