I’m too good at interviewing — and get offered jobs I can’t do by Alison Green on October 21, 2020 A reader writes: This question may seem like bragging but I don’t intend for it to come across that way so if it’s too annoying I apologize (I understand, believe me). I’ve been told repeatedly throughout my life that I am a very charismatic person. People are drawn to me at an almost inexplicable level […] Read the full article →
as a manager, do I need to hide my stress from my team? by Alison Green on October 21, 2020 A reader writes: I work a fairly high-stress management position. It’s the kind of job that comes with frequent six-day weeks, not a huge paycheck, a lot of customer interface, and the responsibility of a regularly shifting staff of seasonal employees. I’m concerned about how I comport myself as a manager. I don’t have much […] Read the full article →
how to say “no, I won’t clean the bathroom” by Alison Green on October 21, 2020 A reader writes: I work at a small nonprofit organization. My manager is always looking for ways to save money. Some make sense (think shopping around for the best price on office supplies). Others, not so much. We don’t have a janitor on staff, nor do we hire a service. We used to have someone […] Read the full article →
staff doesn’t say thank you, reference checker only wanted to hear about “exceptional” candidates, and more by Alison Green on October 21, 2020 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Our staff doesn’t acknowledge the ways we’re trying to make them feel appreciated I am a partner at a small (15-person) organization that has transitioned to remote work relatively easily since COVID. But, like lots of companies, one of our challenges has been finding ways […] Read the full article →
when is struggling financially worth it for your career? by Alison Green on October 20, 2020 A reader writes: Three months ago, I made the transition from my multiple low-paying jobs in the nonprofit world to a much better-paying single job in government. I love the money. I love it! I literally get overwhelmed and start grinning like an idiot when I think about how I can afford an apartment by […] Read the full article →
planned maintenance later today by Alison Green on October 20, 2020 Just a heads-up that comments will be be closed for a few hours later today, starting around 4:30 or 5 pm ET. You’ll be able to read the whole site but not leave comments. It’s possible the site itself might have a little downtime tonight as well. It’s nothing alarming — just upgrading the server […] Read the full article →
my boss never praises my work by Alison Green on October 20, 2020 A reader writes: I work as an assistant for the development team of a nonprofit. I’ve been in this role five years. My manager, Jane, who is far and away the most influential person in the organization, never praises me. Ever. She’s very good about addressing my mistakes (articulating what I did incorrectly, giving me […] Read the full article →
new coworker is a rude know-it-all by Alison Green on October 20, 2020 A reader writes: I have been working on a project for over a year, and over the last six months I have taken over the lead responsibilities. For the last year, our entire team of four has been women. Several weeks ago, a new coworker, “Mark,” started. Mark has experience in our field and has […] Read the full article →
I don’t want to be friends with my coworker, attendance contest, and more by Alison Green on October 20, 2020 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. I don’t want to be friends with my coworker I work in a bookshop. It’s the sort of place that hires pretty much only graduates, and an obsessive interest in reading is an absolute must — for a retail job, it’s much more of a […] Read the full article →
should I use a two-column resume? by Alison Green on October 19, 2020 A reader writes: I am going to school for a master’s degree for a health adjacent profession (think psychologist, clinical social worker etc) and I have a question about the best way to format my resume. Most of the things on my resume take up maybe half of the space on a line. For example: […] Read the full article →