December 2020

another person got their dog (UPDATED WITH PHOTOS)

It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. This letter isn’t from someone whose letter was answered here, but it’s from someone who was impacted by another letter — this letter from the person whose company […]

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updates: the inappropriate boss, the small gifts, and more

It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are four updates from past letter-writers. 1. My new boss asked everyone how many people they’ve slept with (#2 at the link) Two days after you posted […]

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updates: the treats, the fake tooth, and more

It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are four updates from past letter-writers. 1. Should I stop bringing in treats for my team? I learned a lot from your response. Thank you so much […]

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update: my abusive boss was fired after I complained about her — what do I say to coworkers?

It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer whose abusive boss was fired after the letter-writer complained about her? Here’s the update. It’s been over 6 months since Hedra suddenly quit. There’s no […]

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update: my coworkers complained that the look of my breasts post-mastectomy is making them uncomfortable

It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer whose coworkers complained that the look of her breasts after her mastectomy was making them uncomfortable? Here’s the update. (The first update was here.) I […]

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