weekend open thread – October 16-17, 2021 by Alison Green on October 16, 2021 This comment section is open for any non-work-related discussion you’d like to have with other readers, by popular demand. Here are the rules for the weekend posts. Book recommendation of the week: The Husbands, by Chandler Baker. In a neighborhood of high-powered, accomplished women and their extremely supportive, housework-loving husbands, all is not what it seems. I make […] Read the full article →
it’s your Friday good news by Alison Green on October 15, 2021 It’s your Friday good news! 1. “I emailed you a few weeks ago asking for advice after I was told that I would never be promoted again even though I had just received a great 1-year review and a promotion. (Note from Alison: this exchange was unpublished.) Well, I took your advice and went back […] Read the full article →
open thread – October 15-16, 2021 by Alison Green on October 15, 2021 It’s the Friday open thread! The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on anything work-related that you want to talk about (that includes school). If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to talk to other readers. * […] Read the full article →
my friend’s work problems are stressing me out, I got accused of trash-talking a former job, and more by Alison Green on October 15, 2021 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. My friend’s work problems are making me anxious I have a friend who can’t seem to hold down a job for very long before becoming very frustrated with it. Every workplace has an issue: coworkers who are catty, management that isn’t supportive, information that isn’t […] Read the full article →
when the red flags are even more ominous than you know… by Alison Green on October 14, 2021 In 2014, I received this letter. I get more mail than I can answer, and this one didn’t end up getting published. But read on, because there’s a twist coming. After following your cover letter and resume advice, I landed an interview for a position I would love to have. It is similar to my […] Read the full article →
update: how much of a red flag is it if a job candidate was fired twice previously? by Alison Green on October 14, 2021 Remember the letter-writer asked about a job candidate who had been fired twice previously? Here’s the update. I wrote in about six months about a job candidate who was fired twice previously, and my uncertainty about whether to move them forward in the process. As I said in the update in the comments section, I […] Read the full article →
what should I bring to the office now that we’re going back? by Alison Green on October 14, 2021 It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: I graduated in May 2020 and started my job fully remote. I luckily have a really great group of coworkers who made a huge effort to include me in the broader office even while virtual and I really love the work so far. But we […] Read the full article →
boss says we can’t share our lunches, employee fell for a scam, and more by Alison Green on October 14, 2021 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Our boss told us we can’t share lunches with each other I have been having lunch with some of my coworkers for over four years. Sometimes we bring food and share it among us. Last month, my boss told me and everyone else that we […] Read the full article →
our head of security took upskirt photos of an intern by Alison Green on October 13, 2021 A reader writes: Curious to hear your take on a situation that came up a long time ago at a previous workplace. Shortly out of college, I got a job working for a nonprofit cultural institution that had a fair share of unpaid interns working across the organization. Our head of security had a reputation […] Read the full article →
my employees keep contacting me when I’m off work by Alison Green on October 13, 2021 A reader writes: I manage a staff of 18 who work varying shift times. When I’m out of the office, whether that’s due to vacation, illness, or just regular days off, my staff constantly contacts me. It’s mostly questions about things that could easily be handled by someone else in the building, management or not. […] Read the full article →