October 2021

our Zoom meetings are a disorganized mess

A reader writes: This hilariously, painfully accurate TikTok dropped into my Twitter feed today. This is very true at my organization, and seems like I’m not alone. We weren’t exactly famous for starting meetings in an on-time, organized manner in pre-pandemic times, and we struggled with Zoom before it was cool, but it’s definitely gotten […]

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my coworker complains all day long

A reader writes: I work in IT at a mid-sized company and my coworker, who I share an office with, does a lot of complaining. IT was understaffed at this company for a long time, and we have a huge backlog of projects, poor management, and little support from leadership. I’ve been here for nearly […]

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update: a coworker prayed for my fiancé’s death so we didn’t invite her to our wedding … and now there is drama

Remember the letter about the person who prayed for a coworker’s death, leading to a bunch of drama when she wasn’t invited to his wedding? Here’s the update — which apparently resolved before I had even printed the letter here. I wrote to you recently about my fiancé, “Ted,” who was in a car accident […]

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I’m constantly anxious that one of my employees will quit

A reader writes: I manage a small team. We pay generous salaries, overtime, on-call pay, and very nice year-end bonuses. I’d like to think I am good manager – I invest in my team’s growth, I communicate expectations clearly, and I offer genuine appreciation for good work. When something goes wrong – as it always […]

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job seekers are ghosting us on interviews and job offers

A reader writes: I recently made a slight career change. I went from working at a nonprofit to working for a vendor I often outsourced work to, so the people I manage now do almost the same thing as the people I managed previously. Part of my job is hiring, but I’m having a much […]

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