update: my coworker told HR I was interviewing and now they’re posting my job by Alison Green on December 8, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer whose coworker told HR that she (the letter-writer) was interviewing and so they posted her job? Here’s the update. I wanted to write in the […] Read the full article →
coworkers crashed my networking party, new hire wants to print everything, and more by Alison Green on December 8, 2021 I’m on vacation. Here are some past letters that I’m making new again, rather than leaving them to wilt in the archives. 1. My former coworkers crashed my networking party I can’t believe I am asking this, but is it okay to crash a networking event if you’re friendly with the host? After the first […] Read the full article →
update: should I include work about a BDSM dungeon in my portfolio? by Alison Green on December 7, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer asking if she should include an article she’d authored about a BDSM dungeon in her portfolio when applying for jobs? Here’s the update. I wrote to […] Read the full article →
updates: the toxic positivity meetings, the endless monologuer, and more by Alison Green on December 7, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. How do I get out of my office’s toxic positivity meetings? So first of all, thank you for responding to […] Read the full article →
updates: my boss liked my work until we met in person, and more by Alison Green on December 7, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are four updates from past letter-writers. 1. My boss liked my work — until we met in person and she saw my weight I really appreciated your […] Read the full article →
updates: the photoshopping coworker, the boss at the barbecue, and more by Alison Green on December 7, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are four updates from past letter-writers. 1. My coworker photoshopped my head shot to make me look younger and thinner Before my letter was published, I immediately […] Read the full article →
update: my employee took money under false pretenses from a nonprofit by Alison Green on December 7, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer who was worried her employee took money under false pretenses from a nonprofit? Here’s the update. I’d like to thank everyone for their input on this […] Read the full article →
update: dealing with customers who are angry that we require masks and proof of vaccination by Alison Green on December 7, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. We have so many updates this year that I’m going to be posting six to seven times a day for the next several weeks — so keep checking […] Read the full article →
employees ask customers to buy cheese from her, picking up boss after surgery, and more by Alison Green on December 7, 2021 I’m on vacation. Here are some past letters that I’m making new again, rather than leaving them to wilt in the archives. 1. Employee is soliciting customers to buy mozzarella from her I manage our family-owned retail farm store and have two employees. One is our full-time butcher and the other is my daughter’s best […] Read the full article →
update: can you be spontaneous when you have a full-time job? by Alison Green on December 6, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer wondering if you can still be spontaneous when you have a full-time job? Here’s the update. Thanks for responding to my letter! You and the […] Read the full article →