updates: coworker sounds drunk on work calls, the marshmallow challenge, and more by Alison Green on December 17, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are four updates from past letter-writers. 1. My coworker sounds drunk on work calls There have been so many great updates this year that I feel bad […] Read the full article →
updates: leaving without burning bridges, the lying director, and more by Alison Green on December 17, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. I was promoted under threat of retaliation and want to leave without burning all my bridges (#3 at the link) […] Read the full article →
it’s your Friday good news by Alison Green on December 17, 2021 It’s your Friday good news! 1. “I am so excited that I get to send in my very own good news letter! I did not think it would ever happen for me. I am older and was trying to make peace with sticking it out at old job when I saw the job advert for […] Read the full article →
open thread – December 17-18, 2021 by Alison Green on December 17, 2021 It’s the Friday open thread! The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on anything work-related that you want to talk about (that includes school). If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to talk to other readers. * […] Read the full article →
my coworker spends his day on magic and politics by Alison Green on December 17, 2021 I’m on vacation. Here are some past letters that I’m making new again, rather than leaving them to wilt in the archives. 1. My coworker spends his day on magic and politics I work in a small company with roughly 20 workers at our main office. There’s a gentlemen (and I use that term loosely) […] Read the full article →
updates: the person who came across as timid, the lost bags, and more by Alison Green on December 16, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are four updates from past letter-writers. 1. How can I stop coming across as quiet and timid? I found all the suggestions really helpful and when I […] Read the full article →
update: is paratransit making me look like a slacker? by Alison Green on December 16, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer worried paratransit delays were making them look like a slacker? Here’s the update. I know my letter wasn’t as spicy as some, but I always […] Read the full article →
update: should I expose my boss for her mean and gossipy Twitter account? by Alison Green on December 16, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer whose former boss was posting confidential information on Twitter, including tweeting about an employee’s abortion and another’s sexuality? The letter-writer was wondering whether she should […] Read the full article →
update: my boss is angry that I lied about the reason for my vacation by Alison Green on December 16, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. We have so many updates this year that I’m going to be posting six to seven times a day for the next several weeks — so keep checking […] Read the full article →
is it wrong to socialize with only one of my employees? by Alison Green on December 16, 2021 A reader writes: I manage a specialty niche team of four. Last year, I hired someone I knew from a previous job, let’s call her Mary, where we were at the same level, but now she reports to me. I am a happy hour aficionado and regularly host happy hours for my staff where they […] Read the full article →