update: I caught my coworker masturbating at his desk by Alison Green on December 13, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. We have so many updates this year that I’m going to be posting six to seven times a day for the next several weeks — so keep checking […] Read the full article →
I got in trouble for taking someone’s juice, my boss forgot something major about me, and more by Alison Green on December 13, 2021 I’m on vacation. Here are some past letters that I’m making new again, rather than leaving them to wilt in the archives. 1. I got in trouble for taking someone’s juice The question I have is a debate I shared with my girlfriend and then my cousin, who is a HR manager. On my 15-minute […] Read the full article →
weekend open thread – December 11-12, 2021 by Alison Green on December 11, 2021 This comment section is open for any non-work-related discussion you’d like to have with other readers, by popular demand. Here are the rules for the weekend posts. Read the full article →
the best office holiday party date story of all time by Alison Green on December 10, 2021 A couple of years ago, someone shared what I consider to be the best holiday date story of all time, and it must be shared here again. Enjoy: When I was fresh out of college, a dude in my social circle invited me to his fancy work Christmas party. He was a teacher, so I’d […] Read the full article →
update: student employees are using me for therapy by Alison Green on December 10, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer whose student employees were using her for therapy? Here’s the update. I really appreciated the feedback from Alison about setting boundaries, and some of the […] Read the full article →
updates: the upset colleague, the evaluation input, and more by Alison Green on December 10, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. Colleague was upset that I didn’t support his bid for promotion (open thread, commenting as “Academic glass half full”) Recap […] Read the full article →
it’s your Friday good news by Alison Green on December 10, 2021 It’s your Friday good news! 1. “I have been dying to either ask a question or share some good news, and the time has come! Thanks to a professor’s suggestion, I decided to take medical leave from my graduate program just after Labor Day, which meant I needed to find a full-time job ASAP. Well, […] Read the full article →
open thread – December 10-11, 2021 by Alison Green on December 10, 2021 It’s the Friday open thread! The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on anything work-related that you want to talk about (that includes school). If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to talk to other readers. * […] Read the full article →
new hire is plotting a coup, employee is terrified of balloons, and more by Alison Green on December 10, 2021 I’m on vacation. Here are some past letters that I’m making new again, rather than leaving them to wilt in the archives. 1. Our new hire is plotting a coup on her second day I work in HR, and we had a new recruiter start yesterday. She seems to struggle with issues from her previous […] Read the full article →
updates: the coworker secretly living in the office and more by Alison Green on December 9, 2021 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are five updates from past letter-writers. 1. My coworker is secretly living at the office I took your advice and asked the COO about the situation. The […] Read the full article →