is it bad to request the top of the salary range? by Alison Green on August 13, 2024 A reader writes: I am interviewing for a job at a different company. It would be a lateral move, but worth it to me given that the new company is more stable and has greater opportunity for advancement. This is a salaried professional position. I think I am well qualified for it, perhaps a little […] Read the full article →
my employee keeps commenting on my looks by Alison Green on August 13, 2024 A reader writes: How can I best respond to an employee of mine about his frequent inappropriate comments about my body and looks? I’m worried about inadvertently devolving into “you think I’m hot” territory or drawing even more attention to my body, which makes me very, very uncomfortable. Some recent comments/actions include “You’re bringing sexy […] Read the full article →
my company secretly gives parents thousands of extra dollars in benefits by Alison Green on August 13, 2024 A reader writes: I work for an organization that prides itself on being generous and flexible to parents. I fully support that, despite the usual gripes among the childless employees you might imagine (e.g., we are asked to work more weekends and nights). A colleague of mine, a parent, is leaving the org and invited […] Read the full article →
employer wants us to “volunteer” for groundskeeping, snubbed by a mentee, and more by Alison Green on August 13, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My employer wants us to “volunteer” for groundskeeping and cleaning I work in a faculty position at a private university that is struggling with all the challenges that higher education is facing right now, including declining enrollment. We have not had raises in years, and […] Read the full article →
my boss is pressuring me to work more hours … I just came back from stress leave by Alison Green on August 12, 2024 A reader writes: I recently took a couple of weeks off work because of a work-stress-related mental breakdown, and came back today. Our project is a nightmare — toxic culture, inexperienced leadership, over-budget, understaffed. Brian, our project manager and my grandboss, is responsible for a lot of the problems. He also can’t manage the members […] Read the full article →
how to respond to “jokes” about age and weight at work by Alison Green on August 12, 2024 A reader writes: I’m a manager with several supervisors under me. A supervisor was “teased” by one team member for being overweight and by a different one for being “old.” Prior to these comments, the supervisor had told me that she’s watching what she eats and is trying to lose weight. She’s about my age […] Read the full article →
my team has been stealing from the company by Alison Green on August 12, 2024 A reader writes: A few days ago, I discovered that at least seven people on my team have been stealing cash across different sites for months. It was deliberate and carefully coordinated and occurred almost daily. They took an average of $30-40 a day so I can’t see how the risk worked out financially after […] Read the full article →
my team has an all-male soccer betting pool, employer asks new hires to list all their prescriptions, and more by Alison Green on August 12, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My team has an all-male soccer betting pool My team includes two women (including me) and five men, three of whom are huge soccer fans. A few months ago, the three of them decided to form a betting pool on a large soccer event. They […] Read the full article →
weekend open thread — August 10-11, 2024 by Alison Green on August 9, 2024 This comment section is open for any non-work-related discussion you’d like to have with other readers, by popular demand. Here are the rules for the weekend posts. Book recommendation of the week: Zero Stars, Do Not Recommend, by MJ Wassmer. A couple is trapped at an expensive resort after the sun explodes. * I make a […] Read the full article →
open thread – August 9, 2024 by Alison Green on August 9, 2024 It’s the Friday open thread! The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on any work-related questions that you want to talk about (that includes school). If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to take your questions to […] Read the full article →