is it better to quit without another job or be fired? by Alison Green on November 14, 2024 A reader writes: Which would make it harder to get another job — quitting without another job or getting fired? If you have a job where requirements have changed radically and unreasonably, where every day is a nightmare, and people with long track records of good work are being threatened with being fired, I know that getting fired means you at least get unemployment compensation. And it seems that you’d have to explain either quitting without a job or getting fired to a potential employer. So is there any reason to quit before you’re fired? Or it’s the same, either way? It varies depending on the circumstances. If your finances dictate that you’ll need unemployment benefits, then quitting without another job lined up may not even be an option. But if your finances allow you to quit and you’re truly miserable, you’re usually better off quitting. First and foremost, it’s better your mental health. But also, it’s easier to explain leaving without another job lined up than it is to explain a firing. There are plenty of ways to explain a firing too — being fired doesn’t make you unemployable — but it raises more concerns for most interviewers, and will usually require more of a explanation, than simply leaving will do. It’s more likely to make interviewers worry that whatever was behind the firing will pop up as an issue at the new job too — that your skills might not be as strong as you’re saying they are, or that you have trouble getting along with people, or on and on. Any decent interviewer knows not to assume that’s the case — just because one job wasn’t the right fit doesn’t mean that other jobs won’t be, and you might not even be the cause of whatever went wrong — but it raises questions that you’re better off not raising if you can avoid it. So all else being equal, it’s better not to be fired if you can avoid it. But it’s also not the end of the world if you can’t avoid it. There’s also a middle option that can work in some cases but not all: if you know you’re not meeting your boss’s expectations and don’t think that’s likely to change, sometimes it makes sense to have a candid conversation with your manager about that reality and agree on a planned transition, where you’re not being fired but you both decide it makes sense to set an end date. In the kind of situation you described with what sounds like punitive management, this may not be a wise option, but it can work when you have a reasonable boss who sees it as the best option for you both. More on how to do this here. And some other relevant columns: how to explain you were fired, when interviewing how to explain to your interviewer why you left a previous job how to explain to interviewers that you left a job due to burnout a happy ending: I quit my job without another one lined up You may also like:my boss called a mysterious meeting with me and I'm afraid I'm going to be firedhow do I explain being fired for sharing confidential info with a friend?my brother broke up with our coworker, it’s causing drama, and I want to intervene { 53 comments }
Annony* November 14, 2024 at 2:09 pm Timing also matters. One advantage of leaving before being fired is that it could help with references and whether you are eligible for rehire. Quitting the day before you are fired probably wouldn’t help much but if you quit months before you would be fired, before you have bad performance reviews or get put on a PIP it could matter. Reply ↓
pally* November 14, 2024 at 2:25 pm My sister was facing job termination over excessive absences. Apparently, termination was a long, drawn-out process. She remained employed while the termination process played out. Initially she figured that she’d wait for them to fire her. The union rep implied that sometimes the company never actually gets around to executing terminations. Ahem, sometimes. During the discussion with her union rep, she also learned that getting fired meant the complete forfeit of her retirement pension. Something that had been growing for the entire 20+ years she’d been working at that job. A substantial sum. She didn’t realize this. So she quit. And salvaged her pension. Reply ↓
Watry* November 14, 2024 at 2:49 pm Almost the exact same thing happened to my mother, who retired rather than be fired. The union rep said they’d likely win her case (it was a blatant attempt to push out a long-term employee) but that it likely wasn’t worth it since she was ready to retire anyway. She got a new job after taking a break. Reply ↓
Goldenrod* November 14, 2024 at 3:06 pm OMG! Okay, this would definitely be good information to find out. I’m glad your sister figured it out in time! Reply ↓
Radioactive Cyborg Llama* November 14, 2024 at 3:39 pm In most cases in the U.S., people can’t lose a pension after 20 years–ERISA has a graduated vesting schedule that would have someone full vested after 6 years and partially increasingly vested for years 1-5. Don’t think this applies to a pension not covered by ERISA, such as state employees. Reply ↓
pally* November 14, 2024 at 4:01 pm I don’t know the specifics as to what my sister’s pension rules entail. I just looked up where she worked (it was a big, big company) and read that “some of their pensions are covered by ERISA”. I know she also had a 401K in addition to the pension. Not sure how big that account was. And I couldn’t tell you any more details. It is something folks might check into before deciding whether to quit or get fired. And be sure to learn all the rules before taking action. Reply ↓
Strive to Excel* November 14, 2024 at 2:10 pm I thought that being fired for cause makes one ineligible for unemployment? Or am I misinformed? OFC this is going to vary country by country. Reply ↓
Willow* November 14, 2024 at 2:19 pm Fired for misconduct makes you ineligible. The employer has to prove that there was actual misconduct, they can’t just say there was. If you’re fired for not being good at the job or because the employer doesn’t like you or most other reasons, you’re eligible. Reply ↓
Ask a Manager* Post authorNovember 14, 2024 at 2:19 pm There’s some variation by locale but typically in the U.S. if you’re fired for misconduct (like insubordination), absenteeism, or breaking policies, you won’t be eligible for unemployment. But if you’re fired for performance (you were trying but couldn’t meet the bar they wanted), you’re eligible. Reply ↓
Statler von Waldorf* November 14, 2024 at 2:49 pm It’s very similar in Canada, except it is all run by one federal agency (Service Canada). If you are fired for misconduct, you usually don’t get employment insurance. Misconduct covers a variety of things, including: absenteeism, insubordination, tardiness, acts of violence, drug use, criminal offences, etc. It also includes actions that you take outside the workplace, which I have seen bite some people over the years. Misconduct does not cover incompetence or unsatisfactory performance, unless the company can actually show that you were willfully being incompetent, which is a difficult thing to prove. Most companies don’t fight it though. In Canada, what a company pays for EI has nothing to due with previous claims, so there is almost no incentive to fight about it. The company pays the same percentage of their payroll to EI whether they lay off hundreds of workers a year or whether they have never fired a single employee, so who cares what they do after you let them go is the usual attitude. This only applies to employment insurance though. You can get fired for misconduct and still receive parental, sickness, or compassionate care benefits from Service Canada if you qualify for them. Reply ↓
Not A Raccoon Keeper* November 14, 2024 at 4:48 pm Thanks for this, fellow Canadian! So helpful to see it laid out like this. Reply ↓
Expert Paper Pusher* November 14, 2024 at 5:37 pm I initially read this as “It also includes actions that you take outside the workplace, people who I have seen bite some people over the years”, which made me have so many questions about your job. Reply ↓
Caleb (he/they)* November 14, 2024 at 7:01 pm I don’t know if you’ll be able to answer this or not, but I’m suddenly wondering if I may have interpreted the unemployment laws for my state (Washington) too literally? Our unemployment website states: “You may qualify for benefits if your employer fired you for no fault of your own. For example: You did not have the skills to do the job.” I’ve interpreted that very literally as “you may qualify for employment only if there were specific hard skills required to do the the job that you did not possess, e.g. they needed someone proficient with Photoshop and you were not; if you were technically capable of doing what they needed and just didn’t meet their standards, you’re not eligible”. Is this supposed to indicate that just being fired for performance is also a potential reason why you can apply for unemployment? (I’m not sure how much it matters on a practical level, since at least in my area unemployment can be notoriously hard to get and denials are very common, but I’m just trying to figure out if I’ve misunderstood the rule itself or not.) Reply ↓
Slimboy Fat* November 14, 2024 at 2:20 pm I think it’s more a case of terminology. “Fired” tends to be for people who were terminated from their role with cause–i.e. insubordination, violence, etc. If you apply for unemployment in those instances, there’s a good chance your claim will be denied. A lot of times people say they were “fired” but really they were “terminated” or “let go”–maybe it was budget cuts, performance issues, the company was moving in a direction that had no need for your role anymore, your supervisor just wanted to get rid of you in an at-will state and was smart enough to not tie your termination to a protected class, etc. If you were to apply for unemployment in those circumstances, you could probably be approved. However, YMMV, I’m not an employment lawyer, this varies by state, I’m only talking about the US, etc. Reply ↓
Ask a Manager* Post authorNovember 14, 2024 at 2:23 pm Typically “fired” is used when you were let go for a reason related to you/your work/your conduct. “Laid off” is financial/restructuring; they don’t plan to refill the position right now. “Terminated” or “let go” covers either of those. Reply ↓
Tupac Coachella* November 14, 2024 at 4:08 pm Not necessarily, but it can make it a much lengthier process (this is actually what I came to the comments to say). I’ll preface this by saying that I worked in unemployment support a really long time ago, and it tends to be much more variable than one would think, but this general idea seemed to be a common theme across multiple states that didn’t change too much over time: In many US states, “fired with cause” is ineligible for unemployment, but determining that someone was fired with cause requires the employer to provide some kind of proof, and a lot of them just…don’t. In my state in the 2010’s, you had to say you were fired on your application and give a brief overview of what happened (same with if you quit). Then you were typically denied regardless of what you said, but then the nice people at the UI office (i.e., me) would tell you to appeal and help you through the process-we’d even fax your paperwork for you. While this works out for the employee more often than I expected (the adjudicators tended to lean toward the employee in appeals, not necessarily true everywhere), it takes a while. If the employer didn’t fight it, the appeals process still delayed the approval by at least 2 weeks on top of the normal timeline. If the employer did fight it, it could drag out for weeks or even over a month if they were nasty or the case was complicated-a ‘constructive firing’ would be an example of complicated, like a lady I helped whose job intentionally added unrelated duties to her work that they knew were physically almost impossible for her to keep up with until she felt like she had no choice but to quit; think an office manager being asked to do roofing work. Add in the 1 week waiting period in my state, and the unemployed person sometimes had a new job before they got their money. Now, they got back pay, but that doesn’t help when you’re trying to keep the lights on until your first paycheck. IME, “laid off” is the only category that generally went through without much explaining, but you do not want to lie about that-if you say you were laid off, start getting money, and your employer contests it, you could be on the hook for everything you received. Generally the application asks a bunch of questions to help determine what category you fall into and get the information they need to review it if it’s anything but laid off. (In my state, laid off basically meant that your job wasn’t there anymore, seasonally or permanently. If that wasn’t the case, you pretty much were fired or quit, and both required review.) So, TL:DR, if you’re expecting to file for unemployment after being fired, expect delays beyond what the website or representative tells you. You’re in a better position if you can find a way to be eligible to be considered laid off (criteria depends on the state.) Reply ↓
Aggretsuko* November 14, 2024 at 5:25 pm Per a friend of mine who’s been fired/laid off quite a lot from the CA tech industry: (a) You don’t automatically immediately get unemployment if you’re fired like if you were laid off. (b) EDD will check with the employer as to whether or not they are on board with you getting unemployment. (c) She said that everybody just let her have it and didn’t fight it. This last part sounded shocking to me, but she’s worked at almost all of the famous big tech places and I guess they don’t care so much? Reply ↓
Government Worker* November 14, 2024 at 2:14 pm If you’re fired for cause, you aren’t necessarily eligible for unemployment anyway, so don’t bank on that. (pending state laws, etc etc) Reply ↓
Sloanicota* November 14, 2024 at 3:49 pm also a job that is annoyed with you may be more likely to dispute your unemployment; if you can leave on decent terms they may skip that. Reply ↓
Roland* November 14, 2024 at 4:03 pm That really depends. As Alison says above, in many US jurisdictions you are eligible for unemployment if you were fired for not being good enough at your job (vs embezzlement or smth) Reply ↓
Education Mike* November 14, 2024 at 2:18 pm I was able to make the third option work for me. My boss and HR agreed to officially lay me off. I collected unemployment and was able to talk about things in a way that saved face. I do think it helped that I was hired essentially to do one role, and then three months into the role they essentially decided they wanted something fairly different. That’s the risk of a new role at a start up, I guess? It still felt like a major failure. I hobbled along, very very miserably, for the rest of the year. When they re-listed “my” role, it was with a different title. They also fired their new hire very quickly. *Shrugs* Not having to tell myself (or admit to others) I was fired did help with the hit to my mental health it all took. Reply ↓
ferrina* November 14, 2024 at 2:51 pm Yeah, sometimes a lay-off is an option. This can be a hard thing to negotiate though- if you are on PIP, or the boss disagrees about how much your job changed (it’s irrelevant if the boss is right, it’s all about what they think), or if you’re at a company that likes to fight unemployment, or if you are having performance issues (i.e., are already on a PIP or close to it). You’ll have better luck if your boss is acknowledging the big difference in the role, your boss/HR are already on good terms with you, and your company tends to do right by their people anyways. Reply ↓
Le Sigh* November 14, 2024 at 4:00 pm I did a version of this. I wasn’t performing up to standards, they (frankly) sucked as managers, and we all knew this was a miserable situation. They were at least decent enough to have a frank conversation with me where we more or less agreed they’d give me time to find a new job and provide a good reference. I think ultimately they wanted me gone because I was a bad fit, but didn’t want to fire someone, especially someone young and broke who was trying (really, really trying) and could succeed in a different role. I hated everything about that place, but I appreciated their willingness to work with me (and the HR person who advised me on when to put in my notice so I could hold onto my insurance plan longer — shout out to her). Reply ↓
Goldenrod* November 14, 2024 at 2:24 pm I think this kind of thing is so subjective too. I have been in some pretty horrid work situations, but for me, personally, the anxiety of not having a job outweighs hanging in there, even in a toxic environment. But other people may feel that the stress of keeping a job under those circumstances requires a swift exit, even without another job lined up. I respect this strategy too. It’s best to look out for #1. Do whatever works best for your finances and mental health. And I hope we get a happy update soon! Reply ↓
Junior Assistant Peon* November 14, 2024 at 2:45 pm You can almost always make a firing look like a layoff when you’re interviewing for your next job. It’s highly unlikely that your HR department is going to dish the dirt when someone calls for a reference check; they’ll just verify that you were employed during a given date range. Reply ↓
Ask a Manager* Post authorNovember 14, 2024 at 2:47 pm Definitely not widely true, especially if they’re asked if you’re eligible for rehire. Reply ↓
GammaGirl1908* November 14, 2024 at 3:24 pm Even if this is true, you should negotiate this upon your departure. You don’t want to get unpleasantly surprised — then you’d have to explain being fired AND lying about it. In my life, I have been under threat of firing twice, both times basically for being a poor fit at the job. Both times I asked to resign, got them to agree not to contest unemployment, and got them to agree to a neutral reference. These are all things that cost them nothing and got me to leave sooner and without any drama, so they agreed. That way I could honestly say “I decided to leave because it wasn’t the right fit” when asked about it. I would have said that same thing had I actually been fired, but the way I did it meant the job’s assessment would agree with mine if they were asked. (I often note that, when this happens, the job just wants you to go. They don’t want you ruined and broke and miserable and suffering. They’re perfectly happy if you keep working; they just don’t want you working THERE. Agreeing to resign moves that along painlessly.) Reply ↓
I beat a PIP* November 14, 2024 at 2:48 pm Sorry if this is a bit of a sidetrack, but I got put on a PIP a few years back (which despite my feelings/not-great manager was fair). I ended up meeting and eventually exceeding it. It actually ended up being a good experience and wake up call for me and my manager so was beneficial for both of us. Coupled with a new manager not long after, I actually ended up leaving on goods terms when I was ready with a good achievement on my CV and was told I’m welcome back at any time! TL/DR yes a PIP is shit but there’s still hope if your boss or HR is reasonable decent. Reply ↓
ferrina* November 14, 2024 at 2:56 pm LW didn’t say if they are on a PIP or not. If they are at-will, then the company doesn’t need to put them on a PIP before firing them. A PIP is a valuable tool at a good company, but based on LW’s description, I don’t think this is a good company. And it definitely doesn’t sound like somewhere that the LW wants to be long-term. Beating a PIP often takes a lot of focus and energy, and LW is probably better off putting that energy into a job search. Reply ↓
Jonathan MacKay* November 14, 2024 at 2:49 pm I walked out of a job in February 2021 without a backup plan due to severe ethical concerns with business practices going on at the place I was working – I was encouraged by people better informed to apply for unemployment, despite my quitting instead of being fired. I didn’t get it, because the common practice is to get the employers side of the story, and of course I had no reason to expect them to be truthful. When they are doing things which is borderline, if not outright fraud, it’s entirely in their interest to deflect the scrutiny that may come their way. I ended up getting my current job the following April, after the person they had originally planned to hire couldn’t take the job for unspecified reasons – They reposted the ad on Monday, I applied on Tuesday, was zoom-interviewed on Wednesday, met in person on Thursday, and hired before I even made it home. It’s been good ever since – despite completing my HR certificate program, and setting out for the professional accreditation, there’s been plenty of support – even though I have been completely open about planning to move on into another field of employment. Reply ↓
ferrina* November 14, 2024 at 3:00 pm Thanks for adding the dates in here- the timing makes a big difference. Your story happened during the Great Resignation, where the job market was hot. The job market has slowed significantly, so LW should weigh that factor in accordingly. The economy can make a big difference in these decisions. (I was unemployed in the Great Recession, and that hobbled my career and impacted my career path for years) Reply ↓
Goldenrod* November 14, 2024 at 3:08 pm This is a great point about timing. I got a new job during the Great Resignation and I was shocked at how quickly it happened…I also got a significant raise. But my timing was so lucky, and I think at another time it would have played out differently. Reply ↓
Jonathan MacKay* November 14, 2024 at 3:43 pm I kept in touch with my supervisor (I ended up working about 4 doors down the street) and found out that to replace me, they had to hire two guys at $18/hr (about $2 more than I was being paid) and even then THEY didn’t last…. At some point, you’d think management would develop self-reflection….. I had started the HR courses in January, being motivated to start due to some of the frustrations – walking out in February let me focus on the two foundational courses to the program… I ended up with just shy of honors for the certificate. ((83% average – honors started at 85%)) Reply ↓
Anon for this* November 14, 2024 at 2:56 pm I’m in a similar situation (minus the hostility) and would love advice. My duties have changed drastically over the last year. I’ve been able to adapt enough to do OK, but I know I’m not doing well. The team’s needs are moving further and further from my skill set and there’s only so much I can pick up on the fly. I’m also getting less and less busy as the team’s workload shifts towards things I straight up can’t do. My manager is supportive and has tried to find ways to fit me in, but I know from our conversations that she sees the same gaps I see. I’m job hunting, obviously, but the market is rough in my field and I expect it to take a long time. I’m scared to suggest a transition plan because losing my income would be a major hit to our finances. But this is seriously impacting my mental health and confidence, and I’m scared of getting fired if I stay in this situation too long. Do I keep pushing through and hope I get lucky on the job market before I get fired? Do I quit and take care of my mental health and hope our savings hold until I find something new? Do I have a blunt conversation with my manager and hope she’s willing to plan for a long transition to give me some breathing room? I’m not sure what I should do, and I’d appreciate advice from anyone who’s been here. Reply ↓
Liz the Snackbrarian* November 14, 2024 at 3:41 pm If the market in your field is rough, I would have the conversation with your manager that you want to transition. Maybe brainstorm ways to support you so you can do as many of your duties as possible. The downside of that is that you risk them letting you go right away. I guess it depends on how much you trust your manager to support you. Reply ↓
Lemons* November 14, 2024 at 2:59 pm Slight tangent: If you know your days are numbered, start getting prepared financially! I quit my job without another lined up after saving up several months worth of ‘income’ while gritting my teeth at my super toxic job. I cut a lot of unnecessary expenditures and worked a few side gigs to do this. Set some savings goals, so once you cross whatever your safety number is, you know you have real options if you get to the point of “I absolutely have to quit right now.” I know working more to save up isn’t an option for everyone, and to those folks I say, even just redoing your budget can take you a long way towards feeling financially safe enough to leave. Reply ↓
A Simple Narwhal* November 14, 2024 at 3:36 pm That’s good advice. And if the end is approaching you should also make sure to take advantage of every benefit you can. Make every medical appointment you haven’t taken yet. Spend your FSA (assuming it won’t carry over/be cashed out). Check what you can get reimbursed for, whether it’s the $40 your insurance might cover for having a gym membership or any other benefit your company might offer. I know a former company covered the fee for applying/renewing your TSA pre-check so when the writing was on the wall I went and applied for that. Not every company has bonus benefits, but yours might and it’s worth looking to see what’s available and take advantage of all of them while you still can. Reply ↓
Decidedly Me* November 14, 2024 at 4:48 pm Even without the desire to quit, this is something people should do if they can. General advice is to have 3-6 months of savings and this can really help people to more quickly leave bad situations (work, personal, etc) Reply ↓
EJR* November 14, 2024 at 2:59 pm I think you are giving too much credit to most hiring managers/resume screeners by assuming they would look past a firing. A lot of initial applications seem to ask whether you have ever been fired and I assume that is an easy way to put anyone who answers “yes” into the reject pile without further consideration, especially if faced with a high volume of applications of otherwise qualified candidates. Reply ↓
Sola Lingua Bona Lingua Mortua Est* November 14, 2024 at 3:23 pm This is my experience, too. The Scarlet F is real and unemployment benefits aren’t nearly enough to offset it. Reply ↓
WillowSunstar* November 14, 2024 at 3:25 pm Especially if AI is “reading” the resumes, which in a lot of cases now, it is. Reply ↓
Liz* November 14, 2024 at 3:13 pm Am I the only one who got federal employee out of this? If you’re financially able to quit there won’t be much mystery why. But same with “fired” in this context Reply ↓
A Simple Narwhal* November 14, 2024 at 3:21 pm I was able to make option 3 work for me. My company was acquired and my job became a nightmare. I was working 14 hour days, dry-heaving from stress, and crying every day. I finally had enough and spoke with my manager (and HR) and said that this clearly wasn’t working out for anyone, and if they agreed to not fight my unemployment claim we could just call it a day. They agreed (I got it in writing) and I was able to leave my horrendous job and still collect unemployment. I will say that I am very fortunate that I was able to go on my spouse’s insurance and we could afford to temporarily lose most of my income, which I know not everyone has the freedom to do. Reply ↓
Lyra Belacqua* November 14, 2024 at 3:33 pm I was totally miserable in my last job, for what sound like similar reasons to the OP. A few practical things that helped me feel comfortable with the decision to quit without anything lined up: 1. I had health insurance through my spouse. 2. I had the ability to pick up freelance work to float me financially (which also meant I could frame my leaving as “deciding to freelance”). 3. My org was notorious for its terrible working conditions, such that quitting or being fired from it carried no stigma in my relatively small industry (and in fact people were often impressed that I’d “managed to stay that long.”) 4. I hadn’t worked there long enough to be eligible for a significant amount of severance. 5. I had been planning to quit for a long time, but had been too anxious to pull the trigger. All that said, I want to underline the point about the mental health benefits of quitting vs. waiting to get fired. I wasn’t yet on a PIP but was being asked to do humiliating, time-consuming tasks if I wanted to remain employed, when it was clear (based on the org’s history and on general vibes) that even if I did those tasks, it wouldn’t change the inevitability of my getting fired. It was a really powerless position to be in, and I saw how it ground down colleagues who had experienced it before I did, even when they were only sticking it out for unemployment/severance/insurance reasons, and even when they knew it wasn’t a reflection on their worth but on the unrealistic expectations of the org. Quitting on my own terms helped me take back a little of that power. Reply ↓
VoPo* November 14, 2024 at 3:38 pm I quit a job with nothing lined up last year. My boss at the place I quit was truly awful. I had basically shut down mentally. It took me three months to find a new role, and it was a very hard 3 months as I watched our savings disappear. My husband was working but I’m the main breadwinner so his salary alone couldn’t keep us afloat long term. In my case, I made the right choice. I was so depressed at that job that I couldn’t even effectively look for a new job. I needed to be free of it first. Of course, if it had taken me much longer to find a new role, my answer might have been different. Reply ↓
hypoglycemic rage* November 14, 2024 at 3:38 pm I left my toxic old job without anything else lined up. I am very fortunate that I had savings that enabled me to do this. part of why I left the way I did was because I didn’t want to be fired – for my own mental health, I don’t know if I could have coped with that. but also because I thought it would be easier to explain why I left (because I was moved to a new team and the work was not what I wanted to do, I did not mention the toxic management). even when I was in the midst of a four-month job hunt, I never ever thought “man, I wish I hadn’t done that.” I never regretted that choice. I know not everyone is as fortunate, but if you’re able to leave on even slightly good terms, I’d do that. Reply ↓
el l* November 14, 2024 at 3:54 pm Yep. If you’re able to not have to care about the foregone money – quit. Because control. Or if you prefer call it, “better to leave under your own terms,” or “Don’t waste any more time at this job.” Reply ↓
MistOrMister* November 14, 2024 at 3:54 pm I was in this position last year. Got laid off, lucked (so I thought) into a new job within a couple of weeks, making 20k more and seemed great. Get there and it’s a dumpster fire. I was laying awake at night staring at the ceiling freaking out. I quit after 3 months and took what was supposed to be 1 month off before I started searching. It took over a month before I even sent out resumes and I went between being thankful I have some savings to being terrified that I would never get another job in time and would be homeless. If a place is so toxic you have no choice and think you can find a new job in a reasonable amount of time quitting is certainly an appealing option. But do be prepared for some possible financial anxiety. Reply ↓
Hiding from My Boss* November 14, 2024 at 4:16 pm question for any hiring managers reading this: Knowing that people are sometimes in job situations that become “quit without another job or lose your mental/physical health, etc.,” how does this affect your thinking about candidates who are fired or quit without another job? And how does it mesh with the conventional wisdom of not saying anything negative about a previous job/manager when we know there are some that are straight out of hell? Seriously would like to know the thinking on this. Reply ↓
Decidedly Me* November 14, 2024 at 4:52 pm As a hiring manager, leaving without something lined up looks way better than being fired. If someone leaves without something lined up, I may have some questions about it, but with a firing, I’ll have concerns. Reply ↓
Lisa Simpson* November 14, 2024 at 5:43 pm When I worked in California my employer was very open about the fact that they would try to coerce people to quit rather than fire them so they would not have to pay out unemployment. Reply ↓
Lisa Simpson* November 14, 2024 at 5:46 pm Also another place I worked was not shy about marking people who quit as ineligible for rehire, as a punishment for leaving. Reply ↓
653-CXK* November 14, 2024 at 6:29 pm I think it was better in my circumstances to be terminated from ExJob (of 21-1/2 years) than to quit. If I had a lot more money saved up, I would have quit, but then I would have not received unemployment. At least in my circumstances (not keeping up to the standards of the job, which changed at the caprice of upper management) I was able to get unemployment for 30 weeks. Reply ↓