updates: telling my boss I want his job, coworkers ask about my weight loss, and more by Alison Green on December 31, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are five updates from past letter-writers. 1. Should I tell my boss I want his job? (#5 at the link) I did take your advice and tell […] Read the full article →
updates: my coworker says he’s my boss but he’s not, and more by Alison Green on December 31, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are five updates from past letter-writers. 1. How do I reject a qualified former coworker? (#4 at the link) I have a brief update with a bit […] Read the full article →
update: my awful coworker’s employees want me to help them by Alison Green on December 31, 2024 Remember the letter-writer whose awful coworker’s employees wanted her to help them? Here’s the update. First, I decided to back down for a while. Soon after “the flop,” one of John’s better employees cut his losses, left a scathing exit interview, and took a job hundreds of miles away. An even more experienced employee — […] Read the full article →
coworkers are attacking people over grammar, boss’s wife wants me to organize their house, and more by Alison Green on December 31, 2024 I’m on vacation. Here are some past letters that I’m making new again, rather than leaving them to wilt in the archives. 1. Two coworkers are attacking people over grammar At my company, we have a couple of grammar fanatics who go out of their way to correct people even when they’re not in the […] Read the full article →
update: is it my job to manage a coworker’s feelings? by Alison Green on December 30, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer asking if it was her job to manage a coworker’s feelings (#2 at the link)? Here’s the update. I took your advice to disengage from […] Read the full article →
update: my manager says my shyness is seen as rudeness by Alison Green on December 30, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer whose manager said her shyness was seen as rudeness? The first update was here, and here’s the latest. I have quite the update and many […] Read the full article →
update: I gave notice to our daycare provider and she freaked out by Alison Green on December 30, 2024 It’s the final week of “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager, with updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer who gave notice to their daycare provider and she freaked out? Here’s the update. I wrote in about two and a half years ago about […] Read the full article →
coworker tags CEO on Twitter to point out my mistakes, I don’t want to carpool, and more by Alison Green on December 30, 2024 I’m on vacation. Here are some past letters that I’m making new again, rather than leaving them to wilt in the archives. 1. Coworker tags our CEO on Twitter to point out my mistakes I’m part of an incredibly progressive, supportive team, where one of my responsibilities is my organization’s social media. In six months, […] Read the full article →
weekend open thread – December 28-29, 2024 by Alison Green on December 27, 2024 This comment section is open for any non-work-related discussion you’d like to have with other readers, by popular demand. Here are the rules for the weekend posts. Turn your volume up: Read the full article →
open thread – December 27, 2024 by Alison Green on December 27, 2024 It’s the Friday open thread! The comment section on this post is open for discussion with other readers on any work-related questions that you want to talk about (that includes school). If you want an answer from me, emailing me is still your best bet*, but this is a chance to take your questions to […] Read the full article →