update: my employee keeps coming to work sick by Alison Green on December 10, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. Remember the letter-writer whose employee kept coming to work sick? Here’s the […] Read the full article →
how to survive your office holiday party by Alison Green on December 10, 2024 It’s December, which means it’s the season of office holiday parties, and all the etiquette landmines that come along with them: should you bring a date or go solo? Can you drink or should you stick to seltzer? Can you huddle by the cookie table with your work BFF or do you have to socialize […] Read the full article →
update: do I have to fire someone due to his lack of child care? by Alison Green on December 10, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. Remember the letter-writer wondering if they’d need to fire someone due to […] Read the full article →
boss talks to me like I’m a baby, coworker is making me late, and more by Alison Green on December 10, 2024 I’m on vacation. Here are some past letters that I’m making new again, rather than leaving them to wilt in the archives. 1. My boss talks to me like I’m a baby I am wondering how I should address a slight issue I am having with my boss. Because I am quite short and young-looking […] Read the full article →
update: someone made a mean “self-evaluation” for my boss, and she’s punishing us all by Alison Green on December 9, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Remember the letter-writer whose coworker made a mean “self-evaluation” for their boss, who punishing everyone? Here’s the update. A lot has happened since I last wrote. First, I’d […] Read the full article →
updates: boss gave me hush money, don’t want to participate in my office’s steps challenge, and more by Alison Green on December 9, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are five updates from past letter-writers. 1. My boss gave me thank-you money in secret, but it feels like hush money (#3 at the link) I thought […] Read the full article →
update: how much can I pet my cat on video calls? by Alison Green on December 9, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. Remember the letter-writer who wanted to know how much they could pet […] Read the full article →
update: my performance evaluation is based on activities outside of work by Alison Green on December 9, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. Remember the letter-writer whose performance evaluation was based on activities outside of […] Read the full article →
42 gift ideas for every type of employee on your team by Alison Green on December 9, 2024 If you’re the boss, finding the right gifts for your employees can be fraught with questions: How much do you spend? Should you spend the same amount of money on each person? And if you don’t know someone well, how do you make sure they like the gift while still keeping it professional? For the […] Read the full article →
update: I was asked to take down a family photo by Alison Green on December 9, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. Remember the letter-writer who, as the only gay man in his department, […] Read the full article →