the schedule for updates this year by Alison Green on December 2, 2024 Welcome to “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager! Between now and the end of the year, I’ll be running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. A heads-up about update season: for the next few weeks I’ll be posting at midnight, 11 am, 12:30 pm, 2 pm, 3:30 pm, and 5 pm (all times are Eastern)* … at a minimum. There will sometimes be additional posts at random times throughout the afternoon as well! Also, if you’ve had your letter answered here in the past and would like to send in an update, there’s still time to include it so go ahead and email it to me! * That’s Monday through Thursday. Friday will be unpredictable. You may also like:update: I ghosted my ex, and she’s about to be my new bossupdate: my dad is dating my boss, and they want me to go to couples therapy with themwhere are they now: update #1 - the new HR rep with no help { 32 comments }
Ask a Manager* Post authorDecember 2, 2024 at 12:33 pm That last link in “you may also like” is to the first update ever printed here! Reply ↓
Fish out of water* December 2, 2024 at 12:53 pm I just came here to say how great it was to see that! Fifteen years of updates, hear hear! Congrats on the blog milestone. Reply ↓
jane's nemesis* December 2, 2024 at 1:14 pm that was really fun to read! Congrats on 15 years! Reply ↓
Honoria Lucasta* December 2, 2024 at 1:49 pm Maybe the most astonishing thing about that post is that it’s an update with only one comment! Reply ↓
wendelenn* December 2, 2024 at 1:33 pm There are posts for updating, we’re eagerly waiting, so bring on the cheer! Reply ↓
Falling Diphthong* December 2, 2024 at 1:54 pm *performs interpretive dance of update anticipation* Reply ↓
Jack Straw from Wichita* December 2, 2024 at 4:42 pm Yes! I said that exactly when I started my day today. I love December for so many reasons, but AAM Updates is a big one! Reply ↓
ferrina* December 2, 2024 at 12:50 pm Squeeeeee!!! What a schedule! Thanks for the end of year gift, Alison and letter writers! Reply ↓
Mostly Managing* December 2, 2024 at 3:24 pm It’s the most wonderful time of the year . All the updates are flowing and we’ll soon be knowing Things we long to hear! it’s the most wonderful time of the year. There’ll be new jobs we started and tales of bad parties and people we’d rather avoid. There’ll be bosses with issues and some need for tissues when news is of joy! It’s the most wonderful time of the year! Reply ↓
Frog&Toad* December 2, 2024 at 4:37 pm How do I add that little heart-for-eyes happy emoji? Imagine that here :) Reply ↓
Analytical Tree Hugger* December 2, 2024 at 1:05 pm …whoa, I didn’t know I wanted this until now, but a book of epilogues (no lead up stories, just the endings/epilogues) could be fascinating to read. Reply ↓
Lilo* December 2, 2024 at 1:04 pm I just want to offer you a heartfelt thank you and let you know that we appreciate you. Reply ↓
D C F* December 2, 2024 at 1:05 pm Updates, yay! One of the most interesting and helpful things about this site is finding out if, and how, the LWs implemented Alison’s advice. Over the last few months I’ve been re-reading all the past updates. It’s fascinating to see what’s worked, what hasn’t, and how often one small problem turns out to be the tip of an Iceberg of Dysfunction. Reply ↓
vulturestalker* December 2, 2024 at 2:13 pm I agree–the updates are one of my favorite parts because you get to see how the advice matches reality (or doesn’t). Reply ↓
Echo* December 2, 2024 at 1:14 pm Hi! If I’ve already sent in an update that (as far as I know) wasn’t posted, should I resend? Or assume you’re still going through the list? Reply ↓
Ask a Manager* Post authorDecember 2, 2024 at 1:34 pm No need to resend, I should have it in my queue! (Although you’re also welcome to resend to be sure if you want — just please note that it’s a resend so I don’t miss that!) Reply ↓
Elizabeth West* December 2, 2024 at 1:18 pm December being Update Season helps take my mind off it also being Pothole Season and Darkness-At-Four-PM Season. :D Reply ↓
roann* December 2, 2024 at 1:45 pm “There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day.” The most beautiful words in the English language. Reply ↓
SBDavin* December 2, 2024 at 1:48 pm Break out the snacks, hold on to your bananapants – it’s Update Season! Reply ↓
Liz the Snackbrarian* December 2, 2024 at 1:59 pm This is the real reason why it’s the most wonderful time of the year. Reply ↓
Former Lab Rat* December 2, 2024 at 2:33 pm I really, really want an update from the Aug 6 letter of this year. That’s the one where the person yelled at employees, slammed doors and was shocked they had the nerve to walk out. Wonder if that person ever got to anger management class? Reply ↓
Might Be Spam* December 2, 2024 at 2:55 pm Update season is kind of like an Advent calendar that you get to open several times especially a day. ;) Reply ↓
MsSolo (UK)* December 2, 2024 at 4:05 pm I imagine it’s unlikely, but the “surprise me” button took me to a decade old letter from someone asking about putting off a promotion so they would financially qualify for a co-op apartment that they anticipated becoming available in the next couple of years, and I’d love to know if they got the apartment in the end, or took the money. Reply ↓