am I too old-fashioned about how I schedule calls, feedback said my enthusiasm can seem too aggressive, and more by Alison Green on October 17, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Am I being too old-fashioned about how I schedule calls? I work for a mid-sized media company. My job includes emailing people outside of the office to set up a time for me to interview them for content that I write. I keep an old-fashioned […] Read the full article →
new employee isn’t cut out for the job, former boss blasts his music, and more by Alison Green on October 16, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Telling a new employee he’s not cut out for the job I began managing a new team last month. The team is very green — over half graduated less than two years ago. In the last two years, this department only had a manager for […] Read the full article →
my coworker does extreme sports when she’s out sick, asking to skip a performance review, and more by Alison Green on October 15, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My coworker does extreme sports whenever she’s out sick I have a coworker, “Pattie,” who has a remote work accommodation due to a mental health diagnosis. For the past year, she has been chronically late to meetings, missed deadlines, and been difficult to reach. This […] Read the full article →
we say grace at team meals, is it unethical to automate people’s jobs away, and more by Alison Green on October 14, 2024 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. We’re supposed to say grace at the start of team meals I work in government. Fairly new to job, first time in government. Been in private sector and higher education before this. Every time my department has a group meal, they say grace. Led by […] Read the full article →
new boss has a different work style, hanging a photo of the president in your office, and more by Alison Green on October 11, 2024 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. My new boss has a different work style than my old boss I’ve been in my job for three years under James. I’ve liked working with him and have learned a lot. The work is fairly strategic in nature, and James often asked for multiple […] Read the full article →
disgruntled ex-employee keeps contacting current staff, a toxic friend, and more by Alison Green on October 10, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Disgruntled ex-employee keeps contacting current employees We had an employee, Lark, who served as a director in our business for about eight months. She chose to put in her notice and leave the company this summer. During her tenure, she repeatedly told several members of […] Read the full article →
employee thinks I’m sending “secret messages” about time off, coworker is annoyed I won’t stay late, and more by Alison Green on October 9, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My employee thinks I’m sending “secret messages” about how much time off she has I’m a new manager with less than a year of experience, and I manage one direct report, Sally. We’re both based in the U.S., while our director is in the UK. […] Read the full article →
group member won’t stop talking, snack bar is in a coworker’s work area, and more by Alison Green on October 8, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Writing group member won’t stop talking and we can’t get any work done I work at an academic institution, and am a member of a writing group that includes people across different departments. We meet every few weeks to write as a way of carving […] Read the full article →
my office thinks I insulted a coworker, someone threw away my shoes, and more by Alison Green on October 7, 2024 I’m off for a few days (probably back tomorrow). Here are some past letters that I’m making new again, rather than leaving them to wilt in the archives. 1. My office thinks I insulted a coworker but I didn’t mean it like that I work for a small nonprofit. I have one boss and about […] Read the full article →
coworkers won’t help me cut expenses, colleague owes me money, and more by Alison Green on October 4, 2024 I’m off for a few days. Here are some past letters that I’m making new again, rather than leaving them to wilt in the archives. 1. My coworkers won’t help me cut expenses A few months ago we received an email from the Big Boss (head of our business unit) that we are entering a […] Read the full article →