should I apologize for my coworker’s behavior at a conference, professional acquaintance messaged me on a dating app, and more by Alison Green on March 17, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Should I apologize for my coworker’s behavior at a conference? Recently, I attended an industry conference hosted by an important client. People in my field from across the country attended for purposes of brainstorming and networking. I attended with a senior colleague from my company, […] Read the full article →
should people be fired for big, public mistakes; managing a former friend; and more by Alison Green on March 14, 2025 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. Should people be fired for big, public mistakes? I’m curious about your thoughts on Major League Baseball’s recent blunder. They released a new series of hats that have the logo imposed on top of the team location. For the Texas Rangers, they did not think […] Read the full article →
employee struggling to identify accommodations to do her job, cold-calling for internships, and more by Alison Green on March 13, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Employee can’t figure out what accommodations would help her do her job I work at a small organization where I wear many hats, including HR-related items. We have an employee, Nicole, who shared with us about a year ago that she was diagnosed with some […] Read the full article →
bad vibes from my new boss, I got in trouble for sending mail with upside down stamps, and more by Alison Green on March 12, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. I get bad vibes from my new boss A new director recently joined my department, and I’ve had an immediate bad feeling about her. I’m not typically quick to judge, and I recognize that she reminds me — at least in some ways — of […] Read the full article →
coworker’s anxiety becomes my problem, complimenting a colleague’s name, and more by Alison Green on March 11, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My coworker’s anxiety becomes my problem I have a coworker, “Lily,” who reports to my manager and has been at the company for two years, with our team for four months. She and I are both pretty new to the workforce (we are 25 years […] Read the full article →
talking to an employee about body odor, not having work friends when you’re the boss, and more by Alison Green on March 10, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Talking to an employee about body odor I manage a large department with several sub-departments. I have been working myself up to addressing an issue for quite some time, because it is a sensitive issue that I don’t know how to handle without fallout: personal […] Read the full article →
making 2 job candidates have dinner together, manager eavesdrops on conversations, and more by Alison Green on March 7, 2025 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. CEO is making two finalist candidates have dinner with him at the same time Wondering if you can tell me if this situation is as crazy as I think it is. My company is hiring for an executive level role for an office we are […] Read the full article →
responding to a nosy coworker, is discussing a march too political for work, and more by Alison Green on March 6, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Was talking about a march for science too political for work? I’m hoping you can help settle a disagreement a friend and I are having about a situation that came up in my work today. I work as a physician at a large academic hospital, […] Read the full article →
coworker keeps a wall of embarrassing photos of former coworkers, boss says staff absences are too high, and more by Alison Green on March 5, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My coworker keeps a wall of embarrassing photos of former coworkers I started a new job at a start-up a few months ago and one of my coworkers, who I work closely with, has a wall next to his desk where he has pinned up […] Read the full article →
coworker asks someone to get him food every day, new hire took the “fork in the road,” and more by Alison Green on March 4, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Coworker asks someone to get him food from the cafeteria every day I work as a consultant for a company and have an older male colleague (in his late 40s) who has mobility issues due to his weight. He sits almost all day and arrives […] Read the full article →