my coworker won’t stop poking me by Alison Green on August 3, 2021 A reader writes: Where do I begin? I have been lucky enough to work for a great, family-owned accounting firm doing invoicing for over a year now. I love my job, I love the work, I have flexible hours, and my boss is great. It’s been a really good work environment. However, there is one thing […] Read the full article →
my coworkers keep asking me when I’m due — and I’m not pregnant by Alison Green on July 21, 2021 A reader writes: I work for a state agency. I love my job. Everyone who works in the office is friendly and lovely to work with. Starting about a year ago, right before a lot of us got sent to work from home due to Covid, I was asked by a male coworker in the […] Read the full article →
my coworker treats me like a child by Alison Green on July 19, 2021 A reader writes: I have been in a new job since March and receive good feedback from the company on a regular basis. I have past experience in a similar role, in the same industry for seven years, as well as being in supervisory positions for 10 years before I was laid off. Basically, management […] Read the full article →
my coworker tells others I’m going to be overwhelmed by Alison Green on July 15, 2021 A reader writes: First, some background: I (f) am an engineer in shared services in new product development. This means that I do not report through R&D, but I do support their teams on a dedicated basis. I am considered a team member for the duration of a project, which can last several years, and […] Read the full article →
my coworker’s bad customer service is irritating me … and she’s friends with my mom by Alison Green on July 15, 2021 It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: I work in a very small public library. One of my coworkers is an older woman who has been friends with my mom for decades, and she and I are also on friendly terms. I’ve helped her out before — I did some grocery runs […] Read the full article →
my coworker sends us incessant updates about her kid by Alison Green on July 13, 2021 A reader writes: My office is working from home and so long as you get your work done, it’s looking to be a permanent change. The only people asked to return are those who struggle with their work or don’t have reliable internet service. My team is very small with only six of us, so […] Read the full article →
my trust fund coworker bullies staff for being “poor” by Alison Green on July 12, 2021 A reader writes: We just got a new team member a few months ago, “Lucy.” Lucy makes no secret about it that she’s a trust-fund kid: private schools, Ivy League, owns a fancy horse, the works. She’s like a stereotype from a bad sitcom. She’s in a role parallel with mine and we have to […] Read the full article →
my coworker’s stress is stressing me out by Alison Green on July 7, 2021 A reader writes: I have a colleague, Belinda, who’s always stressed out. We’re all busy and juggling multiple priorities, but our workloads aren’t unreasonable or excessive. Most people just get on with it and steadily, calmly get their work done — whereas there’s always a sense of chaos around Belinda. She makes a much bigger […] Read the full article →
do I need to keep covering a remote employee’s work? by Alison Green on July 7, 2021 A reader writes: Pre-pandemic, I was often collaborating in-office with a coworker, Alice. We do hands-on work with physical products that our company makes, and it’s not possible to work collaboratively on them with someone who’s not in the same room as you. When our company went fully remote in March of last year, it […] Read the full article →
my coworker is really aggressive about commuting home with me by Alison Green on June 30, 2021 A reader writes: I have a complicated social question for you, which is ultimately about laying boundaries when a coworker shares your commute. I recently started a new job and found out that a former coworker from my last job and I have been hired into the organization at the same rank. We work alongside […] Read the full article →