ask the readers

Looking for crowdsourced wisdom? Here are reader discussions about life at work.

let’s discuss terrible food at conferences and other work events

Let’s talk about terrible conference food — or hell, we can broaden to terrible work event food in general. Some stories readers have shared in the past about culinary failures: I have attended several conferences that were bad, but nothing beats the time the group was served chicken on a bed of lettuce. The vegetarian […]

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discuss: times when you recovered from mistakes at work

It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question — and it’s an appropriate one for Mortification Week. A reader writes: I’m one of those people who tends to catastrophize internally when I realize I’ve made a mistake at work. I’d love an ask-the-readers post where people are invited to share times that they’ve made mistakes at […]

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let’s talk about unusual office traditions

One of the most interesting things about offices is how they develop their own subcultures, complete with rituals and traditions. Here are some interesting office traditions that have been shared here in the past: •. For close to 15 years now, dressing up as one of your coworkers has been a Halloween tradition where I […]

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what are your best tips for attending professional conferences?

It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: I have a question that seems like it would be well-suited for an Ask the Readers. I am looking for tips about attending professional conferences. In particular, I am a grad student who is entering a new field and there is a one-day conference that […]

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how do you balance two “big” jobs in a family?

It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: How do you sensibly balance two “big” jobs in a relationship? My husband is an executive at a high-profile company, and I am the head of a small but very busy specialist department at my firm. Both our jobs are slightly flexible, but less and […]

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let’s talk about your mortifying moments at work

It’s almost time for Mortification Week 2023, and in preparation we need to hear your stories of mortifying experiences at work — yours or other people’s. Maybe you mistakenly emailed erotica to your team …or flashed your entire team during a video call … or gave a person two noses in an interview Photoshop test. […]

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what can I negotiate other than salary?

It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: I probably wouldn’t be the only one interested in hearing what people have successfully negotiated for other than money. I‘ve been in a few situations, both at my current and at former jobs, where I was told a raise or bonus wasn’t possible (bad economic […]

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