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Looking for crowdsourced wisdom? Here are reader discussions about life at work.

people lose their minds over free food: discuss

People are weird about free food at work. Really weird. Free food can make some people lose all sense of decorum and manners (and interestingly, the employees who get the most vulture-like are often the highest-paid). Some reports of free food havoc that have been shared here over the years: • “I had a coworker who thought […]

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how do I come to terms with giving up on my dream job?

It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: I have a very specific training and “dream job,” which for the sake of this question let’s say is archaeology (although it’s not). I’ve been passionate about archaeology since I was a teenager and have both an undergraduate degree and master’s degree in it, as […]

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how can I slowly roll out a different look at work?

It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: I’m a 30-year-old engineer. For the first years of my career I was very focused on fitting in and establishing my competence. I’ve been at my current firm for five years now and I feel reasonably well established. I’ve recently started experimenting more with my […]

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how to cope when you don’t have an assigned work space

It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: I have a question for your readers, if you’re willing to throw this to them. My office is starting to mandate that we come back in person (the reasons why are a whole separate can of worms), and the model we’re returning to is not […]

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how should we handle remote work and extreme weather?

It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: I work for a small nonprofit, and most of our employees telework full-time. They live all over the state, some in urban and some in rural areas. We have been experiencing regular major extreme events (fires, floods, storms, etc.) that have substantial impacts on the […]

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what admin assistants really want from their coworkers

It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question — and since yesterday was Administrative Professionals Day, this is timely. A reader writes: I’d love to talk about what other admins would like in their job to feel appreciated and perform effectively. We’ve established we don’t want flowers on Secretary’s Day, so I’d love to centralize what […]

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8 horror stories for Administrative Professionals’ Day

Administrative Professionals’ Day is today, so please enjoy these horror stories submitted by readers in the past. 1. The dance lesson For Administrative Professionals’ Day (a “holiday” that must die), my company used to order snacks and cheap wine and give us a little token like a mug with the company name on it. One […]

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can we talk about GOOD companies for a change?

It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: I work for a large company that, when I started, I thought was going to be really great. It isn’t. It is the opposite of great. On an almost daily basis, I am blown away by how cruel this company is to its workforce. What […]

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how do you decide whether or not to relocate for a job?

It’s the Thursday “ask the readers” question. A reader writes: I am currently in a position where I am content, but I keep my LinkedIn to “open” because, well, why not? Recently I was contacted by a recruiter for a position I’m interested in but I’m not sure about the location. It would require a […]

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