update: a client sent me a thank-you check as a way to avoid paying my boss by Alison Green on November 13, 2018 Remember the letter-writer last month whose client sent her a large thank-you check as a way of avoiding paying her boss, with whom he was embroiled in much drama? Here’s the update. Thank you to you and your readers for taking the time to answer my question. I thought you all would like an update. […] Read the full article →
here is your happy ending for the week by Alison Green on October 19, 2018 Something nice to end the week with. A reader writes: This is not to ask a question but simply to thank you for giving me guidance and context to get out of a job that was terrible for me. There was a letter I came across about a new boss who was trying to get […] Read the full article →
a salary negotiation success story by Alison Green on September 20, 2018 A reader writes: I wanted to send you a note to thank you for all of your excellent advice, some of which I’ve recently been able to put into practice. I’m a 27-year-old woman, and I recently negotiated my salary successfully for the first time. In my first job out of university, I accepted the […] Read the full article →
update: my dad is dating my boss, and they want me to go to couples therapy with them by Alison Green on September 4, 2018 Remember the letter-writer whose boss was dating her dad, and she was being ordered to attend couples counseling with them? Here’s the update. Thank you so much for your advice and support. Here’s an update. I had to face the ultimatum two days after I first wrote in, so Alison hadn’t posted my letter on […] Read the full article →
update: my boss wants to give me his kidney — but I don’t want it (second update) by Alison Green on August 6, 2018 Remember the letter-writer whose boss was pressuring her to take his kidney for the kidney transplant she needs? The first update was here, and here’s the latest. I have another update regarding my kidney transplant and it’s ultimately a good one! I received my little sister’s kidney about four weeks ago. She has been an absolute angel […] Read the full article →
update: should I remove any mention of a controversial issue from my resume? by Alison Green on December 26, 2016 Remember the letter-writer wondering if she should remove any mention of a controversial issue from her resume (#2 at the link)? Here’s the update. I’m only technically an update- I wrote in the question months ago about whether to remove volunteer work with a reproductive rights group from my resume. I first found AAM when […] Read the full article →
update: my male coworker makes more money than I do by Alison Green on December 22, 2016 Remember the letter from the person whose new male coworker was making significantly more than her to do the same job? Here’s the update. The new coworker, Fergus, was legitimately the worst. I’m still cleaning up the mess three months later. New Manager continued being awful until I complained enough about Fergus to make him, y’know, manage […] Read the full article →
update: my cousin got in trouble after mentioning her period to her manager by Alison Green on December 15, 2016 Remember the letter-writer whose teenage cousin got in trouble after mentioning her period to her manager? Here’s an update. I know I posted an update in the comments (HR guy turned out to be awesome), but I chatted with my cousin more at Thanksgiving. She was promoted to be a cashier lead to help cover […] Read the full article →
update: my company wants to sponsor me for a service dog, but I’m not sure I should accept by Alison Green on November 8, 2016 Remember the letter-writer in May whose company wanted to sponsor her for a service dog but she wasn’t sure if it was okay to accept? I told her to go get her dog, and here’s the update. Of course I took the advice given! Just thinking about your advice, and the advice in the comments, makes […] Read the full article →
update: how do I choose a career path? by Alison Green on October 21, 2016 Remember the letter-writer back in March who felt aimless and unsure about how to figure out a career path? Here’s the update. I know it’s been a while since my post was published, but I thought I’d give everyone an update about my life. First, thank you so much for your advice and for the […] Read the full article →