update: a coworker stole my spicy food, got sick, and is blaming me by Alison Green on October 14, 2016 Remember the letter-writer in July whose coworker stole his spicy food, got sick, and blamed him for it? And HR was blaming him too? Here’s the (kind of amazing) update. I ended up being fired by HR, as she said there was enough of a case to get rid of me before the top boss […] Read the full article →
a salary negotiation success story by Alison Green on September 23, 2016 A note from a reader to end the week and inspire you to negotiate your next job offer: I’ve been job searching for some time to get out of my current unfulfilling position. With your help, I wrote what I would say was a great cover letter, interviewed well, and was offered the job! The […] Read the full article →
update: can I make getting to the final round of interviews – and not getting the job – count for something? by Alison Green on August 26, 2016 Remember the letter-writer in May who kept getting to the final rounds of interviews but not getting a job offer? Here’s the update. I wanted to send you an update after receiving your advice a few months ago on how to continue the job hunt when getting so close and yet so far on a […] Read the full article →
update: my client constantly pesters me and micromanages my every move by Alison Green on April 24, 2015 Remember the letter-writer in February whose freelance client was constantly pestering her and micromanaging her every move — and treating her very much like an employee rather than a contractor? Here’s her update. I have a follow-up to a question you answered about a client who was treating me like an employee rather than a contractor, […] Read the full article →
update: I don’t want my coworkers to know I’m living off cupcakes from the employee kitchen by Alison Green on December 25, 2014 Three years ago, back in 2011, I published a letter from a reader who didn’t want her coworkers to know that she was “living off of cupcakes from the employee kitchen.” She was struggling financially and couldn’t afford meals, let alone new clothes, when her employer changed its casual dress code to one that prohibited jeans […] Read the full article →
update: my managers are giving me contradictory instructions by Alison Green on November 28, 2014 Remember the letter-writer in July who was receiving contradictory instructions from her manager and the head of the organization (#2 at the link)? Here the update. I followed your advice, and I also spoke more thoroughly to my boss about how she wanted to handle affairs when she was out of the office (she is […] Read the full article →
update: my boss is frequently absent and neglects his work by Alison Green on November 26, 2014 Here’s one more before people head out for Thanksgiving. Remember the letter-writer in August whose boss was constantly absent and neglecting his work? Because he was so often not around, our letter-writer’s coworkers were starting to come to her to fill in for him, making it hard for her to get her own work done. […] Read the full article →
2 reader updates (with happy endings) by Alison Green on November 17, 2014 Two more updates from recent letter-writers: 1. How can I ask my new employer for breaks to sit when I go to trade shows? (#3 at the link) It turns out that my new boss is extremely understanding, and as soon as I told her I was having foot issues she arranged so that I […] Read the full article →
happiest endings of 2013 by Alison Green on December 26, 2013 We hear a lot of bad workplace stories here, but we also hear some great ones. Here are the 10 happiest endings of 2013. 10. The reader whose employee didn’t want to take on a new task 9. The reader whose stalkerish ex-boyfriend was applying for a job at her company 8. The reader who […] Read the full article →
update from the person on a performance improvement plan by Alison Green on December 11, 2013 Remember the letter-writer wondering what to do after being put on a performance improvement plan? That writer also wrote in earlier in the year about what to do when a potential mentor isn’t responding to your emails. Here the update on both situations. When I was put on the Improvement Plan, I emailed the woman […] Read the full article →