miscellaneous

interview with a 16-year-old working her first summer job

My 16-year-old niece, M., has appeared here before — when she was 12, she and her sister helped me answer this letter about a boss who was always making out with his girlfriend in his office, and when she was 14, they helped me answer this letter about a boss stopping up a toilet and asking someone […]

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interview with a professional belly dancer

Recently a commenter here mentioned that she used to be a professional belly dancer, and I wanted to know more. She kindly agreed to be interviewed, and here’s our conversation. So you were a professional belly dancer! How did you get into that line of work?  I started belly dancing classes on a whim at […]

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Independence Day round-up

It’s the 4th of July and I’m taking the rest of the day off! But here are five posts with an independence theme — 1. In 2011, I published a letter from a reader who didn’t want her coworkers to know that she was living off of food from the employee kitchen. She was struggling financially […]

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are unshaven legs unprofessional?

A reader writes: I’m just about to start my first professional internship, and I don’t shave my body hair for a lot of reasons I won’t go into. It wasn’t an issue at my last retail position because I was working in a air-conditioned warehouse and could stick with jeans. I could definitely just wear […]

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I’m the new work advice columnist for New York Magazine!

I am bursting with excitement about this and now I get to announce it: I’m the new work advice columnist for New York Magazine! I’ll be writing a weekly column there tackling bosses, coworkers, and other aspects of work life. In my first column, I answer a letter from someone who keeps accidentally becoming friends with her managers and […]

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someone left a bullet casing on my desk

A reader writes: Yesterday I went to a meeting at work. After our meeting, I came back to my desk, and there was a bullet shell casing on my desk (see photo). I went straight to our unarmed security. They called our head of security, who advised me to download a security app. HR was […]

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