“I will confront you by Wednesday of this week” by Alison Green on December 6, 2023 There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. Several years ago, a reader shared with us this epic email that was sent by their company’s boss after a holiday party gone terribly awry, and as we enter the holiday season we remember its glory. “This happened about […] Read the full article →
an Ask a Manager Thanksgiving by Alison Green on November 28, 2023 This is amazing: Someone had an Ask-a-Manager-themed Thanksgiving! Read the full article →
the schedule for updates this year by Alison Green on November 27, 2023 Welcome to “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager! Between now and the end of the year, I’ll be running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. A heads-up about update season: for the next few weeks I’ll be posting at midnight, 11 am, 12:30 pm, 2 pm, […] Read the full article →
this is how you can protect your local library by Alison Green on October 25, 2023 After I printed a letter from a librarian being harassed by patrons, a lot of you wrote in to ask what you can do to help protect your local libraries from threats and book bans. Peter Bromberg, the associate director of EveryLibrary, an organization that defends and supports local libraries, was kind enough to write […] Read the full article →
work doesn’t interest me anymore by Alison Green on October 11, 2023 A reader writes: Later this week, I’ll be going on a second round of interviews for a position I’m interested in. From what I can tell, it’s a great team and the work directly aligns with how I see my career going. I’m also lucky to know a couple of people who work there now, […] Read the full article →
a housekeeping note … and the “surprise me” button by Alison Green on October 9, 2023 A few people have asked about the “you may also like” related links that appear at the bottom of posts, because they’re no longer appearing on the home page. The links are still there if you click through to the individual post. But they’re not currently displaying on the home page, so the only way […] Read the full article →
I’m 25 and don’t want a full-time job by Alison Green on September 26, 2023 A reader writes: I’m 25 and have never worked a full-time job before, and very much do not want to change that. I’m not disabled, but with the amount of time I’d spend working and then coming home exhausted and unmotivated, I worry that I won’t be able to keep up with basic chores around […] Read the full article →
the Ask a Manager book is on sale at Amazon by Alison Green on September 21, 2023 The Ask a Manager book is currently on sale at Amazon (Kindle version only) for only $1.99! That price lasts through tomorrow. In Ask a Manager: How to Navigate Clueless Colleagues, Lunch-Stealing Bosses, and the Rest of Your Life at Work, I take on more than 200 of the tough conversations you might need to have […] Read the full article →
companies that pay you to be a fraudulent hire at a different company by Alison Green on August 29, 2023 Remember the saga last year where the person who showed up to do the job wasn’t the same person who interviewed for it? Wondering how they pulled that off? A reader recently forwarded me an email her spouse received from a company whose entire business model seems to be that they’ll pay you to get fraudulently […] Read the full article →
my coworker brought seven plus-one’s to a work party by Alison Green on August 29, 2023 A reader writes: I recently planned an office social hour at a local restaurant. My invite said “plus-ones are welcome, including kids, but please note you’ll be paying for your own guests.” One coworker, Pam, brought her four kids, husband, mother-in-law, and nanny. Everyone else came alone or with one guest so, of the 19 […] Read the full article →