rejections

What to know about job rejections — why they happen, deciphering form letters, asking for feedback, and not getting discouraged.

where did I go wrong in this interviewing process?

A reader writes: I credit your advice on resumes for helping me get a recent interview with a company for my dream job: a small publisher (~12 employees), in a city I want to live in, as an assistant editor (I am trying to get into publishing,) working on book topics I am interested in. […]

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handling a pushy rejected job candidate

A reader writes: I am a manager of a small business. I have hired three new people since my start here two years ago. In all of those hiring processes, the same person has been an unsuccessful candidate each time: She’s someone who looks great on paper, but did NOT do well in the interview. […]

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how to respond to job rejection – and even make it work for you

It’s your favorite topic: job rejection! Obviously, getting rejected for a job you really wanted is one of the worst parts of job searching. But if you handle the rejection well, you can get something useful out of the disappointment. 1. Don’t get angry. There’s no point in getting angry or taking a job rejection […]

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responding graciously to a job rejection

A reader writes: I wanted to give you a happy endings story. After 2 months of interviews for what was a dream internship, I found out on Friday that I didn’t get the job. I was slightly devastated, but having read almost every article you’ve posted, I knew I needed to send a genuine thank-you […]

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job rejections right before a holiday: okay or not okay?

Whenever I need to send out rejection emails and it’s a day before a holiday — especially Thanksgiving or Christmas — I always wonder if it’s kinder to wait. What’s your take? Would you rather get an answer right now, so that you’re not wondering and agonizing over the holiday break when you could have […]

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6 reasons employers won’t tell you why they didn’t hire you

If you’re like many job seekers, you wonder why employers aren’t more forthcoming with feedback when they don’t hire you. Why are rejection letters so vague, and why are so many requests for feedback met with platitudes like “your qualifications were impressive, but we identified other applicants who were a better fit”? While some hiring […]

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asking your interviewer to let you know if you didn’t get the job

A reader writes: During a recent interview, the interviewers were telling me about their expected timeline for making a decision, and I barely caught myself before saying something like, “Well, can you please let me know either way?” Do you think that it is appropriate to diplomatically say something like that in the course of […]

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how to reject a job candidate

Most job applicants put a lot of effort into applying for jobs: reading up on the company, crafting a tailored cover letter, practicing answers to likely questions, and thinking about how they could best offer something of value. They may even take a day off work and spend time and money traveling to the interview. […]

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how not to reply to a rejection email

When you get a rejection email, if you’re tempted to shoot back a reply, I strongly recommend that you wait a day to do it. Or at least a few hours. Otherwise, you risk sounding angry, defensive, or hot-headed. Good replies: thanking them for letting you know or asking for feedback. Bad replies: “You’re making a […]

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