am I too comfortable pumping at work, should you cite sources on a resume, and more by Alison Green on August 19, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Should you cite sources on a resume? I’m in a required class for my university this semester about “learning to communicate in the workplace and the classroom.” (This is a university aimed at working adults. I’m in my 30s with a full-time job and a […] Read the full article →
employee won’t do part of his job, interviewing when they know they want to hire someone else, and more by Alison Green on August 16, 2024 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. Employee won’t do part of his job I work for a small gym franchise as a manager. Our model is 24-hour access for our members. The staff is not there 24 hours. Because of complaints we are receiving, I have asked all personal trainers to […] Read the full article →
should I tell candidates about 2 dating employees, employee is posting videos about customers on social media, and more by Alison Green on August 15, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Should I tell candidates that two employees they’ll be managing are dating? An organization I’m involved with is hiring their next executive director. There are two key long-time employees who are dating (there are fewer than 10 full-time employees total). When new people join the […] Read the full article →
can my husband hang out in my office, asking coworkers to treat me like “the talent,” and more by Alison Green on August 14, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Can my husband hang out in my office at night until I’m ready to leave? I am a woman in my early thirties. If I am going to stay late at night at work, would it be possible to bring my husband to stay somewhere […] Read the full article →
employer wants us to “volunteer” for groundskeeping, snubbed by a mentee, and more by Alison Green on August 13, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My employer wants us to “volunteer” for groundskeeping and cleaning I work in a faculty position at a private university that is struggling with all the challenges that higher education is facing right now, including declining enrollment. We have not had raises in years, and […] Read the full article →
my team has an all-male soccer betting pool, employer asks new hires to list all their prescriptions, and more by Alison Green on August 12, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My team has an all-male soccer betting pool My team includes two women (including me) and five men, three of whom are huge soccer fans. A few months ago, the three of them decided to form a betting pool on a large soccer event. They […] Read the full article →
job application asked if I’d accept the job, muscling in on a volunteer project, and more by Alison Green on August 9, 2024 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. Application asked, “If offered this job, will you accept?” I am applying for jobs. One application asked the question, “If offered this job, will you accept?” Yes and no were the only options. Obviously, I clicked yes. I assume this is not legally binding. But […] Read the full article →
husband doesn’t like my dedication to my job, which employee is lying, and more by Alison Green on August 8, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Husband has issues with my dedication to my job and 1-2 work trips a year I am the manager at a small association, and I have the opportunity to fill the vacant CEO position soon. This promotion would significantly improve our financial situation, allowing us […] Read the full article →
is liquor inappropriate at a work event that offers beer and wine, visitors want to use our employees-only bathroom, and more by Alison Green on August 7, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Is liquor inappropriate at a work event that offers beer and wine? This is a silly, low-stakes question, but I’m curious. I work very closely with another coworker and we frequently plan events for a specific network of professionals. My coworker absolutely refuses to offer […] Read the full article →
creepy coworker is following my wife, interviewers want to talk about my feelings after rejecting me, and more by Alison Green on August 6, 2024 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Can my wife report her creepy coworker to HR? My wife is in a concerning situation at work. A coworker who started out as a friend began crossing the line, making it clear he was looking for more. The comments he made were more “creepy” […] Read the full article →