mentee was fired for using a vulgar term, asking candidates which position in a band they’d choose, and more by Alison Green on March 25, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. My mentee was fired for using a vulgar term I work in a regulated industry and there are specific education and license requirements to work here. My company has a mentorship program for those who are new to the industry. I am one of those […] Read the full article →
I found “detox” propaganda in the office kitchen, I made a huge political mistake, and more by Alison Green on March 24, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. I found weird “detox” propaganda in the office kitchen I work at a small nonprofit of under 30 employees and we share one small kitchen. Articles relevant to our field or other interesting items are often left in the center of the table for us […] Read the full article →
boss embarrassed me at a meeting, pre-hire drug and alcohol testing, and more by Alison Green on March 21, 2025 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. My boss embarrassed me at a department meeting My company is being bought out for a larger organization. Our jobs will no longer exist in four months. We’ve been encouraged to review the job postings and apply to jobs for which we might qualify. I […] Read the full article →
swiping on a coworker on a dating app, bosses gave a perk to their spouses instead of to employees, and more by Alison Green on March 20, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Is swiping on a coworker on a dating app grounds for an HR meeting? Asking for a friend: They absent-mindedly swiped on a coworker in a dating app (whom they asked out once two years earlier). Said coworker was uncomfortable with that and went to […] Read the full article →
HR changed our performance reviews, do I have to announce my pregnancy at work, and more by Alison Green on March 19, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Should I say something about past allegations against a colleague? I started a new position about six months ago, working with partner organizations across the state on community projects. On a recent call, I was surprised to see someone I’ll call Brad. I knew Brad […] Read the full article →
board volunteer makes everyone’s jobs harder, can I expect a raise when I’m on a PIP, and more by Alison Green on March 18, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Our board volunteer makes everyone’s jobs harder I was recently made the chair of the board for a local community service group. The board receives money each year to buy supplies for community service events, but being on the board is a volunteer position (no […] Read the full article →
should I apologize for my coworker’s behavior at a conference, professional acquaintance messaged me on a dating app, and more by Alison Green on March 17, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Should I apologize for my coworker’s behavior at a conference? Recently, I attended an industry conference hosted by an important client. People in my field from across the country attended for purposes of brainstorming and networking. I attended with a senior colleague from my company, […] Read the full article →
should people be fired for big, public mistakes; managing a former friend; and more by Alison Green on March 14, 2025 It’s four answers to four questions. Here we go… 1. Should people be fired for big, public mistakes? I’m curious about your thoughts on Major League Baseball’s recent blunder. They released a new series of hats that have the logo imposed on top of the team location. For the Texas Rangers, they did not think […] Read the full article →
employee struggling to identify accommodations to do her job, cold-calling for internships, and more by Alison Green on March 13, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Employee can’t figure out what accommodations would help her do her job I work at a small organization where I wear many hats, including HR-related items. We have an employee, Nicole, who shared with us about a year ago that she was diagnosed with some […] Read the full article →
bad vibes from my new boss, I got in trouble for sending mail with upside down stamps, and more by Alison Green on March 12, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. I get bad vibes from my new boss A new director recently joined my department, and I’ve had an immediate bad feeling about her. I’m not typically quick to judge, and I recognize that she reminds me — at least in some ways — of […] Read the full article →