how risky is it to post about politics on social media? by Alison Green on February 25, 2025 A reader writes: Am I shooting myself in the foot by engaging politically in a public way on social media? And how should I weigh the pros and cons? Will a future employer even check for my social media, and if so, what will they think? Can I just temporarily disable my social media during […] Read the full article →
more on the federal government’s “deferred resignation” offer (spoiler: it’s definitely a trap) by Alison Green on February 5, 2025 Just sharing this tweet from Washington Post reporter Jeff Stein about Elon Musk’s “deferred resignation” offer for federal government workers. (Don’t take it! It’s still a trap.) Also, if you remember the letter-writer who worked at Twitter when Elon Musk took over, that same person has sent in this note: I just wanted to thank […] Read the full article →
the first person to accept the offer gets hired, reference checker asked how much sick leave an employee used, and more by Alison Green on January 30, 2025 It’s five answers to five questions. Here we go… 1. Offering a job to multiple people and giving it to the first one who accepts Decades ago, in the early 2000s, my friend was offered an assistant professor position at a university. She was told that the same job was being offered to several other […] Read the full article →
most popular posts of 2024 by Alison Green on December 23, 2024 Here are the posts that interested people the most in 2024, via two lists: the most viewed posts and the most commented on posts. Most viewed posts of 2024: 10. my company says we can’t wear underwire bras 9. my coworkers are engaged but one of them is cheating … with my boss 8. is […] Read the full article →
my favorite posts of 2024 by Alison Green on December 19, 2024 Here are my favorite posts of 2024, in no particular order: 1. how much can I pet my cat on video calls? Because this is asking the important question. 2. I spent a ton of time helping 2 employees who hate each other … now they’re dating Because people are so weird. 3. I think […] Read the full article →
all of my 2024 book recommendations by Alison Green on December 12, 2024 All year long, I’ve made a weekly book recommendation when kicking off the weekend open thread. These aren’t work-related books; they’re just books I like, mostly fiction. Sometimes they’re books that I’m in the middle of reading, and other times they’re just long-standing favorites. Here’s the complete list of what I’ve recommended this year (maybe […] Read the full article →
“I will confront you by Wednesday of this week” by Alison Green on December 11, 2024 Several years ago, a reader shared with us this epic email that was sent by their company’s boss after a holiday party gone terribly awry, and as we enter the holiday season we remember its glory. “This happened about ten years ago, but the email I received from our boss was so epic I preserved […] Read the full article →
more on AI attending meetings by Alison Green on December 6, 2024 A reader writes: This may be cheating as an “update” since I am not the original person who wrote in about AI attending meetings, but I still thought it might be interesting/useful to you and your readers! Today I was in a Zoom meeting: a regular small meeting to publish a paper. I noticed an […] Read the full article →
the schedule for updates this year by Alison Green on December 2, 2024 Welcome to “where are you now?” season at Ask a Manager! Between now and the end of the year, I’ll be running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. A heads-up about update season: for the next few weeks I’ll be posting at midnight, 11 am, 12:30 pm, 2 pm, […] Read the full article →
have a question about holidays at work? by Alison Green on November 4, 2024 I’m doing a column for Slate answering questions about holidays at the office, and I want your questions! Maybe you’re wondering how to get out of buying gifts for all your coworkers, or you want to avoid being shafted in the Secret Santa this year, or you’re terribly afraid your boss is going to hand […] Read the full article →