updates: best friend is dating my employee, coworker tries to scare me, and more by Alison Green on December 3, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are four updates from past letter-writers. There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. 1. My best friend is […] Read the full article →
updates: the dog-sitter, coworker is taking credit for my work, and more by Alison Green on December 3, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are four updates from past letter-writers. There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. 1. My neighbor, her nephew, […] Read the full article →
update: can I do anything about my aggressive-driver coworker? by Alison Green on December 3, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. Remember the letter-writer asking if she could do anything about an aggressive-driver […] Read the full article →
updates: coworkers don’t know I’m married, tiny lunches, and more by Alison Green on December 2, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are four updates from past letter-writers. 1. How do I tell coworkers I’m married when they don’t think I am? (#2 at the link) Your advice was […] Read the full article →
updates: Diet Coke as a religious accommodation, coworker loves shoplifting, and more by Alison Green on December 2, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. Here are four updates from past letter-writers. There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. 1. An industry colleague is […] Read the full article →
update: should I tell an employee I had a dream predicting his death? by Alison Green on December 2, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. In 2018, I printed a letter from someone asking whether they should […] Read the full article →
update: should I tell my employee she needs to give a clearer “no” to a client who’s interested in her? by Alison Green on December 2, 2024 It’s “where are you now?” month at Ask a Manager, and all December I’m running updates from people who had their letters here answered in the past. There will be more posts than usual this week, so keep checking back throughout the day. Remember the letter-writer asking whether to tell an employee she needed to […] Read the full article →
updates: reading in the car on work trips, employer wants my book money, and more by Alison Green on November 14, 2024 Here are three updates from past letter-writers. 1. Is it rude to read in the car on work trips? I have a happy update. I have been using your “I’m having trouble hearing from back here, shout out if you need me” language — so simple. I am not normally an e-book reader but found […] Read the full article →
update: my new employee ran a background check on me and asked me about what he found by Alison Green on October 24, 2024 Remember the letter-writer whose new employee ran a background check on them and asked them about what he found? Here’s the update. Imagine my surprise when I opened the blog today to find you had re-released my letter! I felt an update was owed to the commentariat. I can’t tell you how much I appreciated […] Read the full article →
update: boss wants us to do early-morning and evening meetings so he can attend from his vacation by Alison Green on October 10, 2024 Remember the letter-writer whose boss wanted them to do early-morning and evening meetings so he could attend from his vacation? Here’s the update. My question was posted a couple months after I wrote in, toward the end of my boss’s “vacation,” but I ended up doing some of what was recommended. The particular issue I […] Read the full article →