HR Capitalist’s Power Blog Rankings by Alison Green on September 2, 2007 The HR Capitalist has created the HR Blog Power Rankings. (I was surprised and pleased to discover that I’m #8!) Check it out — there’s a great listing of sites there. You may also like:my employee keeps editing my work -- and it feels like a power playhow should I handle my downtime when I'm working from home?CEO wants staff to buy his wife's book, junior assistant keeps calling me "hun," and more { Comments Off on HR Capitalist’s Power Blog Rankings }
dealing with incompetent coworkers by Alison Green on August 28, 2007 A reader writes: I was recently hired to direct a highly visible urban beautification program. Moderate amount of grunt labor hiring, lots of design and in field production. My Executive Director is results oriented, as am I. Just get it done gorgeous, with in budget, on time. Then up the bar – do more. Great! I love it. Again, I’m in the field A LOT. I leave what seems like the most rudimentary HR tasks with the oh, I don’t know… HR Director??? only to experience lack of follow up, missed appointments, limited information – very minimal, bordering on obstructionist service. Last week I began to just do the job myself as it pertains to my dept. hiring and follow up. The result is a deep freeze from this executive in all but public forums. My value to the organization is predominately creative and requires enormous attention to detail, costs, efficient use of resources. I am largely self directed. Senior staff have begun to ask me to work on their properties, provide visioning, give aesthetic suggestions. When we meet on these private issues, this HR person is accommodating and mission driven. Yet on the job – where it belongs, the team work is non responsive. HR – A key driver that consistently under delivers? Guilty of talentism? Or just a dark bureaucratic force? I love this question, because I’ve all too frequently encountered the personality type you’re describing in your HR director. I don’t think this is an HR thing — based on what you’ve said, it sounds like an incompetence thing, combined with a lack of sense of urgency. You’ll find it in every field; it’s not specific to HR. And, as is so often the case, your success is tied into her performance (which is why you’ve started finding ways to go around her). Fortunately, it sounds like you have the type of executive director who is action-oriented, which means she’s likely to back you up if it comes to that. You didn’t ask for advice, but I can’t help giving it since, well, I’m bossy. So here’s what I’d do in this situation, although obviously you should take personalities and your office politics into account. I’m also assuming for the purpose of this answer that you both report directly to the executive director. There are two possibilities here: (1) She’s incompetent and has no sense of urgency, or (2) There’s more to the picture that you don’t realize and that could change your perspective. Here’s what I’d advise: Meet with the HR director and tell her your concerns. But –and this is crucial — also tell her that you realize you’re only seeing one piece of the picture and that you realize there may be parts of it that you don’t know. Ask her what her perspective is — and be genuinely open to hearing it, since maybe there really are pieces here that would change your opinion. If you don’t hear anything like that, though, then ask her if the two of you can mutually figure out changes that will help the issues you’re raising. I think it’s key to go into the meeting with the mindset that you simply have different perspectives and that you genuinely want to collaborate on fixing the issues; if you go in secretly thinking she’s an obstructionist buffoon, it’s going to come across and it’ll color the whole interaction. Then give it a couple of weeks and see what happens. If you don’t get anywhere, at whatever point you feel like you’ve made a good faith effort to resolve the issues with her directly, I’d meet with your executive director and ask for her input on how to get around your concerns. Keep it impersonal and unemotional; keep the focus on how it’s affecting your ability to move forward and produce. (But of course it’s key to have already met with the HR director herself to discuss the issues; only go to the executive director when you’ve been left with no choice in order to get the problems solved. You don’t want to start out there.) Now, a lot of people out there will disagree with this advice, feeling that you shouldn’t go over people’s heads. But if you address the issues head-on with the problem staffer and can’t get resolution, I think practicality (and effectiveness) demands that you escalate. I know that if I were your executive director, I’d want to know about it. And I also know that when I’ve bumped into this kind of thing in the past, this is how I’ve handled it and it’s always worked well. If you’re clearly an action-oriented high performer and you handle it calmly and unemotionally, you’re going to have credibility (assuming you’ve given her perspective a fair hearing and are being objective). I’ve also found in this situation that when you raise these sorts of issues, it’s rarely a shock to the boss; they usually sense there are issues, although they often don’t have specifics, because so few people bother to use this process. You may also like:I feel guilty about getting a job in my competitive field when others are still strugglingshould you call to “confirm" an interview when you don’t really have one, coworker has imaginary cats, and moremy boss wants to hire us out for our "unique talents and skills" that have nothing to do with our jobs { 2 comments }
guilt about job searching by Alison Green on August 28, 2007 A reader writes: I have been working at my current job for about a year now. I started off bored at work but thought I’d get busier as the position settles down. A year later and I am still as bored as ever. I’ve started considering other positions because I feel my skills are going to pot because of the inactivity. One thing that developed is that we are in the middle of a huge project at my current job — an overhaul of our company web site and I am part of the team to implement and usher in the redesign project. So I anticipate things will be much busier at work pretty soon and I’ll have as much work as I can handle in planning, content migration, etc. Would I be doing my current company a disservice if I suddenly quit in the middle of this redesign process and took on another job — one more in line with my graduate school degree which I just completed a few months ago? I know that we are short staffed and losing me would be a major blow to the team. But if by a stroke of luck, I happen to get hired at a job that is much more suited for my skills, interests and career plans in the future, would it be a wrong thing to do? Should I stick out the redesign process and then apply for jobs AFTER the new web site has been implemented? Or being an at will employee anyway, I really don’t owe my loyalties to this employer who, by designating me an at will employee, indicates it feels no particular loyalty to me either? I guess I am just feeling a bit guilty about letting down my team and the possibility of jumping ship right in the middle of a very important period. What would you think if you were my manager? It’s interesting to me how often this question comes up. Yes, employers are disappointed to lose good employees — but this is part of life, and all but the crazy/irrational managers recognize this. You’ve been there a year, you’re not satisfied, and if you’re able to find something you’d prefer to do, do it. Something else to keep in mind: There’s rarely a “good” time to leave a job. True, some periods are better than others, but it’s very difficult to time a job search to guarantee that the offer you want will come at the ideal time in your current job. Your job search might take months; it might take less. There’s no knowing. If you want to explore what’s out there, go for it. You asked what I’d think if I were your manager. If you gave me a reasonable amount of notice (minimum of two weeks, three is even better, four will make me love you for life), left your work in good order, and provided thorough documentation for your replacement, you’d leave on excellent terms. (All that said, though, have you considered talking to your manager about the aspects of your job that are keeping you from being satisfied there? Before you move on, it might be worth seeing if changes can be made that can keep you happy where you currently are. I always want that opportunity when I value an employee. Something to think about.) You may also like:do I need to give interviewers a great reason for why I'm looking to leave my current job?I'm bored in my first job out of college -- but everything except the work is greatI have no motivation to do my job { 1 comment }
New York Times on job seekers who can’t write by Alison Green on August 28, 2007 The New York Times yesterday reported that nearly half of HR executives say that entry level job seekers are deficient in writing skills. As someone who has to wade through the cesspool of poor grammar and spelling known as cover letters and resumes, I’m actually surprised it’s only half. I wish job-seekers realized that they can often catapult their applications to the top of the pile simply by submitting a well-written, well-proofread letter and resume, since it so stands out in the crowd. You may also like:this is why you need a good cover lettercan you leave dates of employment off your resume?how to write a great cover letter { 3 comments }
Should employers ban Facebook? by Alison Green on August 22, 2007 The Work Clinic has an interesting post today about the debate over how employers should handle the use of Facebook and other social networking sites in the workplace, since some employees may be spending hours a day on them. The post rightly points out that banning such sites sends a message to employees that they aren’t trusted. In addition to that, though, a ban is the lazy manager’s way out. If someone is spending ridiculous amounts of time playing online, a manager is going to see it reflected in that person’s work product and/or productivity. That‘s the bigger issue that should be addressed, not the specifics of how the person is spending the time they’re wasting. There’s no way to ban all the possible ways people can waste time (chatting to coworkers, daydreaming, taking excessive smoking breaks, zoning out while staring at the computer screen, etc.); the more effective option is to pay attention to work output and speak up when it’s not what it should be. You may also like:my volunteer is into BDSM and wants to be a servant at our living history eventshow should I navigate social media connections during a job search?our employee is taking nude photos in our office and posting them to Facebook { 1 comment }
Carnival of HR #14 by Alison Green on August 22, 2007 The Carnival of HR is up at Three Star Leadership. Check it out. You may also like:is this HR process for accommodations as bananas as it feels?my coworker is secretly living at the officemanager photographed accidental exposure, auto-replies saying your email won't be read, and more { Comments Off on Carnival of HR #14 }
when to follow up after an interview by Alison Green on August 20, 2007 A reader writes: I saw your blog and was wondering about something. I interviewed for a job Monday of last week. They said they wanted to hire someone as soon as possible but that they would let me know. I emailed thank you letters immediately the same day when I got home from the interview. I never know how long is too long or too short for following up again. It’s been two weeks since your interview so it wouldn’t be at all inappropriate to call or email your contact at the company and reiterate your interest in the position and ask if they have a timeline in mind for making an offer. As far as general guidelines for following up after an interview: – Send a thank-you within a day or two after the interview. – If the company didn’t give you a sense of the timeline in which they would be making a decision, follow up within a week or two to reinforce your interest and politely inquire as to what they expect their timeline for a decision to be. – If the company gave you a sense of their timeline and you’re past the time when they indicated you would hear something, politely follow up, explain you’re very interested but understand that hiring can take time, and ask if they have an updated timeline. Do keep in mind that no news doesn’t necessarily mean bad news. It’s not at all unusual for the hiring process to take longer than a candidate would like, for all sorts of reasons — decision-makers are out of town, scheduling conflicts are delaying a final interview, the company bureaucracy needed to finalize an offer takes weeks to work through (not necessarily a great sign about the work environment, but that’s a different topic), and so forth. Good luck! You may also like:I was invited to a 300-person cattle-call interview, and now the company wants to know why I'm not interestedI've been offered the job -- but they won't tell me the salary until we can meet face-to-facehow long should it take to hear back after you apply for a job? { 5 comments }
what can’t you NOT do? by Alison Green on August 16, 2007 Steve at All Things Workplace makes a great point in his post about figuring out what career is right for you. He says to ask yourself: What are things you can’t not do? Those are clues to a career you’ll thrive in. This resonated with me in a huge way, because I can see it at work in my own career. At the start of my working life, I couldn’t stop myself from rewriting the company’s form letters, publicity materials, even internal documents. It wasn’t my job, but I literally couldn’t not do it, to the point that I once found myself rewriting the office phone manual late one night. Sure enough, I soon found myself working as a staff writer at a different organization, and for the rest of my 20s, my career revolved around writing and editing. And my quality of life skyrocketed, because just like when I was sneaking those activities in at that first job, it didn’t feel like work at all. Later, I found myself increasingly unable to stop myself from becoming a thorn in the side of my manager until all manner of problems were addressed, from inefficient procedures to morale issues. I was spending more and more time thinking about how I’d restructure things if I were in charge and finding ways to get my ideas in front of my bosses … who — luckily for me — were actually receptive and indulged me in this, rather than telling me to get back to what they had hired me to do. Eventually this moved me out of writing and into managing, and again, what I do now doesn’t feel like work. Looking back at it, it feels inevitable — as Steve wrote in his post, these were things I couldn’t not do. I’ve seen this at work in others too. One entry-level guy I worked with maniacally analyzed the cost-benefit ratio of every new project the organization took on, on his own initiative. After identifying enough cost-saving measures, he ended up getting moved into a position where his job was to do exactly that. A woman I used to work with used to always suggest ways to make a certain research series the company produced more user-friendly and engaging. She ended up in charge of it. (It’s worth noting you probably can’t engage in this behavior without irritating some people. But if you’re good at what you’re doing, truly good managers and coworkers are going to see you as an opportunity, not an irritant.) This isn’t just about taking initiative. It’s about the things you cannot help but do no matter what — ways that your brain works, things that you will spend time on, even if it means working well into the night to fit it in. Take a look at the things you can’t keep yourself from getting involved in. It might point you to a far more satisfying job. You may also like:my employee took money under false pretenses from a nonprofitmy employee keeps editing my work -- and it feels like a power playI got fired for attending a conference that I wasn’t invited to { 12 comments }
leaving a job gracefully by Alison Green on August 13, 2007 A reader writes: I have been working in my current company for about a year and this is my first job experience. Maybe you should know that I am an expat and that somehow for this reason I felt grateful when I was hired. I realize now that I very poorly negotiated the conditions of my job and didn’t even asked the right questions at the interview. Now, I feel trapped in a job I don’t really like and I don’t know how to leave. My company plays a lot on the affectionate side … My boss keeps insisting we are a family etc., etc. This company isn’t right for me and I don’t know how to tell them. Maybe you have some advices on how to leave a company and on how to move on from a bad job experience. Thank you for your help. Leaving a job isn’t a crime. But many workers feel incredibly guilty about it and will even put off telling their boss, which actually makes it worse if it means your boss has less notice than he or she would otherwise have. The big thing to know is that you don’t owe anyone an excuse or an apology for leaving. People leave jobs all the time — it’s normal. Any boss who isn’t crazy knows it’s part of doing business. Simply be straightforward and professional about it, and you’ll likely be surprised at how smoothly it will go. When you’re ready to resign, ask to meet with your boss privately. What you want to say is something like this: “I want to thank you for the opportunity to work here. I’ve learned a lot and really enjoyed my time here. After a lot of thought, I’ve decided that it’s time for me to move on, and my last day will be ____.” Simple, straight to the point, appreciative. And with an appropriate amount of notice (a minimum of two weeks, although many companies appreciate more). You should also offer to do whatever you can to make the transition smooth, such as leaving thorough documentation of how you do your job, contracts, passwords, etc. If you’re up for it, you can also offer to be available for a phone call or two with your replacement after you leave if needed (that’s strictly optional but can generate substantial good will). Very rarely, a boss will react poorly. This reflects badly on the boss, not on you. If this happens to you — the boss gets angry or tries to guilt you into staying — stay professional and simply reiterate that you’ve enjoyed your time there but will be moving on. Emphasize what you’re planning to do to make a smooth transition. You may be asked if it’s about money, and you may receive a counteroffer. Just turn this down gracefully in the same way. If you’re asked why you’re leaving (which is likely), keep the focus off what you don’t like about your current job and stay focused on what you’re moving to. You want to “take advantage of an excellent opportunity” or “get experience in new areas” or whatever you’re doing next. By the way, if at all possible, I recommend finding another job before you leave this one. Job-hunting can take a while, and it’s often easier to find a new position while you’re still employed. Good luck! You may also like:I negotiated and got more money — why do I feel so weird?my employee didn’t tell anyone she was pregnant until she was about to give birthmy coworkers want me to turn down my raise { Comments Off on leaving a job gracefully }
asking for feedback after a job rejection by Alison Green on August 13, 2007 A reader writes: What is the current protocol, or successful strategy, for contact after not getting a job? I have already thanked the panel for the interview. Is there any reason to ask for feedback? I’m always impressed when a candidate asks for feedback after not getting the job — and it there’s an easily articulable reason, I will usually share it. For instance, I’ve told candidates who asked that we felt we needed someone with more experience in _____, or that we were looking for stronger writing skills, and so forth. But sometimes it just comes down another candidate being a better fit, and I’ll say that too, although I’m sure it’s not as helpful. That said, I know that there are a lot of hiring managers who never answer this question, for fear of saying something that will open them up to a lawsuit. But even if you encounter that, there’s still no reason not to give it a shot, as long as you’re not defensive about it and are prepared for an honest critique. I’d say something like, “I appreciate your time speaking with me about the position, and I hope you’ll keep me in mind if something opens up in the future that you think I would be a good fit for. Is there anything you felt I could do to be a stronger candidate in the future?” And if you get an answer, no matter what it is, remember to say thank you. I remember it when I take my time to help someone with feedback and get silence in return! You may also like:why can't I get feedback about why I was rejected for a job?my interviewers interrupted my timed interview presentationan employer told me I was their back-up candidate in case their first choice didn't work out { 14 comments }